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Considering going for a walk. Anyone want to come? Breathes is working on the other computer & I need to get away before his temper has me all hot and bothered (unfortunately NOT in a good way !)

I posted this elsewhere on the site and thought I would bring it over here: I think it's about time I talked about my marriage (still married to the moron due more to lack of funds than anything else). I lived with him for TEN years! Ten years I can't get back, no matter how hard I try. Good...

The fact is that yes, it IS hard to get out of an abusive relationship. It is hard but is doable once you get tired of the abuse AND find some self esteem so you will be able to do what seems to be undoable. The situation is different for everyone , this is true. The hardest part of escaping...

Hello and welcome. You deal with a poly breakup in a very similar way to a mono breakup only you have someone there to commiserate with, support and be supported by rather than wallowing in that pit all by yourself. You go forward, each and every day, you do your hobbies, spend time with hubby...

Woke up :D. Yesterday though :D. My boys turn 16 today so we took them to all you can eat last night, along with friends and other family. A good time, and stuffed tummies, had by all. Happy Father's Day to all who are Father's on here!

Kind of off topic but hoping this will bring it back on topic. NK, I know you started a thread a while back where people could take any issues they had with something you, or other mods?, had said but I can't find it. Was it tossed with the last purge? This issue might be better dealt with...

Back on days! WOOT! We just had a very filling all you can eat inner for my sons birthdays! They will be 16 tomorrow! All that food has made me lethargic :(. Possibility seems to be doing better. A big change in meds and a mental health professional later.....He's wanting to start playing...

First off: if you want out contact a women's shelter. NO men are allowed there AT ALL! The locations are generally little known to any who aren't involved with them. Change your cell number and anything else he knows about that can be traced back to you. A little story: Breathes (my...

Hello and welcome :). I come from a VERY similar place--the place where the partner calls names, belittles you, does nothing to raise you up... He may love you, you may love him but love, by itself, does not a relationship make! I know you don't want to hear this, and it's gonna sound harsh...

www.polymatchmaker.com is a good place as well. Since you're not there she may feel more comfortable opening up there. I'll second (or third) www.xeromag.com totally! http://groups.yahoo.com/group/polyfamilies/?yguid=232353091is a poly group. They don't deal JUST with poly. They also do...

Mehhhhhhh Breathes is working too many extra hours this week so I'm missing him and getting just a little tired of my own company. (Did I just say I'm tired of my own company?) He's not working tomorrow night, unfortunately it's gaming night *sigh*. I'll get to see him Saturday, IF I can get...

In my experience, in the last seven years, yes, the male sex drive is a myth, or at least the next thing to it! With Breathes, until the last month or so, it was extremely rare that we would have sex more than twice a month. :( He's 40. With Possibility, we've been seeing each other for a...

Hugs LR! Sitting at Possibility's, mucking around on the computer, watching Spartacus and just chillin'. Breathes is working too many extra hours this week. Is anyone up for a get together Friday night? I'll be free from 6:30 or so.

Glad you're figuring things out. Wish I had know you were a hockey fan earlier, I would have sent my son out to you, lol. That child (nearly 16! so a child no longer, really :() lives and breathes hockey!

Apparently the show was a huge success last night? Or Friday night rather? RP: here's an idea I've passed around to others, I feel you could use it, along with some huge hugs, right about now. Write out what's bothering you about this situation with Leo, what you want to tell him, how things...

Wondering if humanity's honesty has really gone far as to be close to non-extistent? I got too much change back from a restaurant bill, flagged the waitress to let her know and give back the extra. She was surprised because I WAS honest about it! Come on! It was $10 extra! How can someone...

Have you actually asked Nell whether what her 'friend' said is true? I tend not to put much faith in the whole 'he said that she said that she said that your g/f said this to him' scenario! If someone has a bone to pick with me, they might as well simply talk to me face to face, rather than...

Got some sleep?????? Sitting here on the computer while one son plays a video game and the other checks his email:). Time spent with kids while in the same room rather than text. THUMBS UP!

*snicker* Can you imagine how the American Revolutionary or Civil Wars would have turned out if the powers that be had decided they would HUG their enemies rather than shoot them? :eek::eek::D I much prefer hugging an enemy to death over shooting them :D:D:D:D. Oh yeah, welcome back home...

Tired, which is heightening my frustrations and making me angrier about something I have absolutely NO control over. Government offices suck, especially their hours, but it is what it is. *shrug*