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  1. Breathesgirl

    Redpepper's journey

    Snicker. Uh huh, Riiiiiiiiiiiiiight. Just cuz he started it doesn't mean you had to continue it :D ;).
  2. Breathesgirl

    Redpepper's journey

    Hugs to all of you :).
  3. Breathesgirl

    Redpepper's journey

    Now just where the heck is the spew alert? I was drinking some milk, read this & my computer just about WORE my milk! lol
  4. Breathesgirl

    Poly Surprises?

    I have never thought of myself as pretty or anything, closer to average so finding someone else who thinks I'm pretty was pretty amazing.
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    a blogspot blog

    I read on blogspot but haven't actually used my blog in ages!
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    Did your comfort with poly come gradually or in an epiphany?

    I can SO relate! I do NOT like Breathes' former fwb so had problems with them going out together (except for concerts, weddings, etc. since there was no chance for anything more to happen). He had another at one time whom I adored so didn't have a problem with them going out. As for the OP...
  7. Breathesgirl

    What did you do today that made you smile?

    Kept busy at work :). Quite a daunting task when you consider that the carpet industry is slowly going under :(.
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    What did you do today that made you smile?

    Breathes cooked breakfast :) Babysitting for Possibility this afternoon :)
  9. Breathesgirl

    Good times

    Originally by redpepper: I brought this over here because it rings SO true to who I was in my late teens and twenties! I was having sex with just about anyone who would have me. I thought it was because sex was fun. Sex WAS fun, BUT that was only a by-product. The real reason was...
  10. Breathesgirl

    Dating, scheduling, keeping track

    I LOVE Google calendar! I can colour code each calendar, they've got sticker type things as a memory tickler eg. Money bag for pay day. I think I've got about eight calendars going, lol. It sends you the day's schedule at 5:29 am each and every morning so you can see what you've got planned...
  11. Breathesgirl

    What did you do today that made you smile?

    Coffee with Breathes :). Sitting here, smelling supper cooking :).
  12. Breathesgirl

    Pet Peeves

    People who 'hurry up' to get around you so they can stop at the next red light! I just grin at these. I usually manage to govern my speed so I don't have to stop at most of the stop lights, lol. If they'd stayed behind me in the first place they would have made the GREEN light :D. People who...
  13. Breathesgirl

    Good times

    Good food, good friends, good movie. Does anyone need more? We had our get together yesterday! I didn't think I'd be able to go :(. I had a debilitating headache which just wouldn't let up or quit. It seems it finally ran its course & left the building some time yesterday afternoon :). I...
  14. Breathesgirl

    Good times

    OK, so not quite as soon as I'd hoped...... After I finished texting with Possibility I got to thinking (dangerous, I know ;) ). Male partner left this morning and will be gone for a few days so he was most certainly not happy about having to leave. Apparently he apologized to Possibility...
  15. Breathesgirl

    New and curious

    Not all partners need to be sexually/physically involved with each other! My two guys, Breathes & Possibility, aren't physical with each other at ALL! They're friends, they get along, they play D&D together. I'm physical with both. My sig line says it all, really.
  16. Breathesgirl

    Ari's Blog - Beginning

    You could use wordpress, livejournal, blogspot. I use all three :).
  17. Breathesgirl

    sexless marriage

    If I had the choice of a sexless marriage or a marriage with someone who couldn't fulfill me mentally & emotionally I'd take the sexless marriage every time! As others have suggested: make some time for the two of you. A date night. We did this tonight. We went to our favorite sushi bar as...
  18. Breathesgirl

    Redpepper's journey

    It sounds as though you & LR are having the same problem, only worded differently. She is learning to be her own Primary and it sounds like you are headed down the same path :). It's always a good path when we learn that we CAN be OK even when we aren't surrounded by other people. Lots of...
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    Good times

    YES! I've been using Google calendar forever! Breathes can't be bothered as he just tells people to contact the keeper of the chaos--me, lol. I'm trying, rather unsuccessfully, to get Possibility's family using one for something other than doctor appointments I know his memory sucks, as do...
  20. Breathesgirl

    Just LR

    It is, indeed. :) "A journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step" applies in a lot of different places in our lives. It's those baby steps that enable us to eventually accomplish the "big picture." It's also those baby steps that let us start the journey, make the "smaller" milestones...
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