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  1. Breathesgirl

    Redpepper's journey

    It is nice to have someone to talk to, but it's equally important to feel comfortable doing so.
  2. Breathesgirl

    Redpepper's journey

    *grinz*
  3. Breathesgirl

    Redpepper's journey

    Each day, moment to moment, we make decisions which impact other parts of our lives. We make those decisions based on the information we have at that particular point in time. We make the best decision we can based on that information. If scaling back your relationship with Leo is what it...
  4. Breathesgirl

    Polyamorous just in words or actions too

    Maca: I don't think LR means to simply run away from the life you have together. You ALL mean so much more to her than that. (Please LR, correct me if I'm wrong on this.) I think she's wanting to run away from responsibility and sucky situations for a short time hence the trip later this...
  5. Breathesgirl

    Good times

    There's a conversation going on in one of the other threads about commitment to a plan. Plan of action, plan of what to have for supper, what movie to see, when to get together...... That's the one MAJOR thing that drives me bonkers about Possibility and his family! I try to make plans for...
  6. Breathesgirl

    Polyamorous just in words or actions too

    You're working on it! That says a lot in, & of, itself! You care enough about the rest of the family to work on yourself in order to be there for them when they need you. A lot, LOT, of people have given me flack over the years because I tell them to be their own primary first and foremost...
  7. Breathesgirl

    Recreational Nudity

    I like nice, clean clothes as well. The thing with naked is that there are MORE clean clothes to choose from when you go out if you don't wear them at home ;).
  8. Breathesgirl

    Redpepper's journey

    Welcome back :). Glad you had a good time.
  9. Breathesgirl

    Recreational Nudity

    We're as nude as temperature and circumstances permit around here. We used to be c/o around my kids but when they were old enough they asked us to stop so we respected their wishes & did when they are here. It's cold as heck here right now & we don't control the temp in our apartment so we...
  10. Breathesgirl

    Redpepper's journey

    Many hugs RP. Hope you feel better & much more rested when you return.
  11. Breathesgirl

    Thank you, admins!

    I wholeheartedly agree with the sentiments here! Thank you admins!
  12. Breathesgirl

    Ari's Blog - Beginning

    Many hugs Ari. You're one of the bravest people I know. Give Sour Girl a hug (cyber or in person) from me too & tell her thank you from all of us here :) on the boards.
  13. Breathesgirl

    Good times

    rant *rant* How can you tell it's night time & the mods all live in North America so are asleep????? You sign on to a FULL page of spam! Any way, needed to vent my frustration about that, lol. Yes, I realize mods need sleep. This isn't about that. It's about the spammers out there who...
  14. Breathesgirl

    Did I handle the situation right?

    It's only been six weeks. A lot of people do feel "love at first sight". For those people it takes time to reach the point of love. Give him time and attention. It took me THREE years to tell my boyfriend I love him. Some how I think you would have gone nuts & then been gone long before...
  15. Breathesgirl

    I think I'm being targeted as a blue unicorn!

    I'm not trying to be flip, just trying to clarify a little. "Blue unicorn"=more rare than the standard "unicorn"? Go with your instincts. They are telling you to go with the flow so do so. I have learned that if I listen to what my own body/mind/gut is telling me, it will invariably be the...
  16. Breathesgirl

    Ari's Blog - Beginning

    Maybe out west you have Husky House. Ontario we MIGHT have IHOP in the border cities, especial Niagara Falls. I know the cities further from the borders have no such thing :). We used to have Golden Griddle but I think even that's gone belly up. For pancakes the kids just say "Mom, can you...
  17. Breathesgirl

    Good times

    I like this & think I may just have to adopt it for us, lol. I think Breathes already has & I haven't twigged to it until now. He tells everyone to talk to me for any plans since I'm the keeper of the chaos (read calendar)!
  18. Breathesgirl

    Ari's Blog - Beginning

    As I'm sure you've read here, and elsewhere, many times. Take your time, process, learn from this. You will come out the other side stronger and wiser. Just keep taking those baby steps, one day at a time, one hour or minute at a time if need be. Do what you need for you. Many hugs & the...
  19. Breathesgirl

    Good times

    I don't know what I want or need to say, there's just something telling me I need to write for some reason. I'm sure it'll become apparent to me as I write *shrug*. Breathes still hasn't talked to FWB about changing their relationship. The few times they've gotten together she's been the...
  20. Breathesgirl

    the beginnings of a breakup...

    Give the regular posters time to get out of bed. ;) You posted this early this morning, on a Saturday, so some of those on the West Coast were just crawling into bed after a Friday night out. Feelings are always valid. Unfortunately, that doesn't mean that others will listen or agree with what...
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