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Wow, I think you have to decide on one hand you have a limited open relationship and may have been based on something other than poly at the time. On the other hand, you have 6 years invested in the relationship. Are there aspects of your relationship other than this topic that are breaking...

I felt funny about a situation where I was just having coffee with some guys from a common hobby and both were flirting with me. I wasn't even interested in either but I didn't want to lead either on. I really liked talking about our hobby and \ they gotta flirt with me. I just wanna talk...

Well I decided to bite the bullet and go visit again. I was watching Mad Men and the scene with Red and Cooper when he said, "If I had known that was going to be the last time..." really got to me. So, I am going next week when we have the extra day off. We have a bunch of stuff planned and i...

I have come to just realize it will depend on the person. Obviously sometimes there's a magical chemistry if you are lucky. I guess for that's what defines it for me. I haven't actually labelled myself either although I do believe it is down to the person. I don't what that makes me but I am...

Well welcome and introductions are a good start. I suggest you read through and decide where you'd like to post. If you want to blog about it there's a life stories section. Take your time. Welcome to the board. :)

Welcome!

Hi, I know when I first started thinking... what is this... I thought sure I have to be the only one out there. but isn't it wonderful to know you are not the only one out there? :) I have found this forum so wonderful and a great comfort. Welcome to the boards!

Hi there. Welcome to the forum. Hope you can learn more, and sounds like you have a good thing going in your life :)

Welcome to the forum. (waves back) :)

Wow when I read this I kind of feel this way too... I imagine all the people my sweetie is with and how they must be so much more exciting than I am. You know what I did... this will sound so funny... I said out loud, stop having these stupid conversations with yourself in your head. I said it...

Welcome. Glad to hear your story!

I had this thought about my life. It is funny I think really we want to be loved and desired. In my primary relationship I am very well loved and barely desired at least demonstratively. In the other even LDR I get some sense of being wanted and a lesser extent of being loved, but beautiful...

Welcome to the board. There are so many stories and if you search around on the board you can see what other people have done and other resources. Every story is different. I suggest being gentle on yourself, and let this unfold at your pace. Best wishes to you and hope you can find support...

Well this happened kind of to me. I asked my husband for permission to open our marriage but I found i couldn't just "fool around" and I ended up just telling the truth. A lot of things have happened since then but my husband and I are still together. I don't know if I hurt him or not but he...

I know that wherever he is, he will be looking actively to have someone in his life. I mean I will be in his life but it won't be like it was even when he lived here. I have had time over the weekend to think about this. I am reeling myself in and not setting myself up. Just wait and see how...

Welcome to the forum, hope you find the support you are looking for. :)

Hi Steve, You will find a lot of support here. I hope you find your way and support you are looking for. Welcome!

I read these after my husband told me. Very interesting. I was talking with a friend about it yesterday and he said, well that's a very self-centered way to live. I never thought about it that way. He said, "Yeah, you get your cake and you get to eat it." I guess the glass is either half full...

Well in my case, we had been friends/lovers for over 5 years. He used to live here up until this past summer. Now he is where he has always wanted to be he says, he was homesick. I am not going to be able to stay there any more than he will stay here. It is funny, I had my first poly...

Well it has been a little while but I fell back in love with my secondary despite the time and space. Communication is the key to everything. However this time I fell hard for a few days, I realized I am setting myself up. This relationship is a beautiful friendship with common interests and...