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    New to polyamory; root of a V relationship

    I am in a similar situation. It is so confusing at times, that sometimes I wonder if I am losing my mind. However, I do know I feel very lucky to have two wonderful men who have developed a tentative friendship. I have had to worry less and less about it as time goes on. Each little baby step...
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    just a question Triad vs V

    stumbling along I have had similar questions. I initially called my situation a triad but it is a v for sure. I think one would be ok if we all were able to sleep in bed together but not have sex but the other said, nope that's just too weird. I am not really qualified to speak though as I...
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    New, looking for advice / support

    I too am struggling with that issue. I am the hinge I guess... this weekend I spent time with BF (I call him DH #2) and he treated me that way almost exclusively for about 24 hrs. Then DH joined us for the afternoon since he didn't have Friday off. But the activity we were all doing was a...
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    new and scared 40+ what the heck am I doing???

    Thank you so much. I appreciate your responses. I do kind of live day to day thinking about things and just wondering where it will lead. I do know it is going out of that NRE phase and into a more settled feeling... with BF as we sort of don't write as many emails and don't see each other...
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    new and scared 40+ what the heck am I doing???

    We are very new to this... still trying to figure it out. In a primary marriage with DH for 9 + years... (we are in our 40's) hit a jag, and i ended up outside marriage. Was missing emotional connection/intimacy due to complacency. Couldn't live with it and fessed up. DH afraid of losing me...
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