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    A request: state your gender and sexual preference/orientation

    Me - bi lol. Kinda never thought I would be. With my wife also bi. And our couple both bi. The four of us together -bam-
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    On the lighterside...The 'Things I never thought I would say...'

    Not even there So yesterday my wife gets up and asks me if I know a 'Victoria'. I said no not really , then I got in trouble. Lol....she said she just slapped me in her dream, I asked her why, she said --in the dream I came in the house after being out for a couple of hours to get milk, in...
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    Back and Forth

    You may be right If it's another employee I would tread really carefully. That's a dynamic that can go sideways very quickly. I would also agree with the meeting requirement. He needs to devise if this is going to be a quick fling. or more. If it's just a quick fling (translation- fu*k), that...
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    Back and Forth

    Reminder I would maybe suggest reminding your husband about NRE, because it really sounds like that is playing a part. How long are you in Europe for? For me, my wife has concerns about her shape, as well. She has put on a few pounds that she doesn't like, but she is much more than that to...
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    On the lighterside...The 'Things I never thought I would say...'

    sex fun So i was making love to my secondary (I hate the terms) and i wasnt able to cum, too many things going on. So we got together later, now my parents were staying with us for a few days. They had gone out and we were expecting a phone call before they got back, so we went upstairs...
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    Compersion: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    I can say its real I have watched my wife making love to her BF and seen how happy she is, what I want from my life is happiness. Watching her being happy makes me happy. What do I get out of it, well gee go figure if my wife is happy....... Needless to say there have been many times as well...
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    Newly married and in a happy quad

    Similar We are also in a quad, we live just an 8 min walk apart. The four of us spend a lot of time together and we have regular sleep overs where we spend a night with our secondaries. Us boys occasionally play together as do the ladies but it is. It as often as the boys might like. We eat...
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    Improbable?

    Correction That should say US, lol:(
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    Improbable?

    We are a fourple. (See my other posts here). We all get along sexually. We have had threesome and foursomes and any position you could ever think of. My wife and gf think it's really hot when the two UBS play. I never thought I could deep throat another guy, or sit on him, if you know what I...
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    Lost and Frustrated

    OMG Okay, I don't post a lot here. I am a guy, and I see tons of red flags. My advice-- RUN. Actually, I like the advice to go back to your place and at least let things stabilize. Take a fresh perspective, and get away from the trees so you can see the forest.
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    Unicorns & Unicorn Hunters - Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Unicorn I posted the definition of unicorn because I saw it as not being true polyamory. Polyamory means loving more than one. This has a woman basically locked down as something between a servant and a lover. I could never see myself 'hunting' a unicorn. It just doesn't feel poly. Would I...
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    Unicorns & Unicorn Hunters - Merged Threads, General Discussion

    unicorn definition from urban dictionary Colloquial; Synonym for hot bi babe or HBB, often derogatory, condescending, or ironic. A bisexual person, usually, though not always, female, who is willing to join an existing couple, often with the presumption that this person will date and become...
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    Sexual healers and Slutdom

    The Ethical Slut I went to Amazon and bought the book "The Ethical Slut" on Kindle. It makes a lot of sense and it really takes the word back. I think I would love to be that person. Most of the women I have been with, though, believe that sex is never just sex. When we started going outside of...
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    Living as a Secondary

    Poly is communicating Before you make any drastic shift from this relationship tell them like it is( at least from your perspective). Tell them how you feel, that you notice when youvaround that they fight more etc, exactly what you told us. Either things will work out or they won't, but every...
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    quad in life

    So Rox and Jenn went out to do some errands for a bit, next thing i hear is that Rox and Bob were together, so I went over to bob and Jenns place and rox and bob were enjoying each other , they apparently had a talk and then made up 8-) . And Rox was similing now. So it can be some work but it...
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    quad in life

    quickie today this week the 4 of us have spent sporadic moments together. Rox has been over there helping with Reno's and such. So this morning they came over for brunch, however we ended up playing first before we ate lol. Rox and Bob left first, however some tension developed after. Rox...
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    quad in life

    this weekend This weekend seems to have gone very well. My wife Rox is starting to see just how much I love her too, and that anything I have with Jenn does not take away from her, and that she is not second. Her and Jenn are totally different. And I am liking that. We got along really great...
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    quad in life

    As far as a GF goes that would be to some degree up to the Quad too, and the new GF would have to come naturally. And if the new GF would like to be part of the quad that would be up to her and the quad. I am not really out looking, I dont have any ads up or anything. And really if someone...
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    searching for meaning

    read your entire blog. You can read some of what my life is like as well. Here is what i have to say. I love my wife more than she will ever know, I will be with her right to the end. I also love my GF, and i know my wife loves her BF. I see her the way she lights up sometimes when she...
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    quad in life

    OK so here is where we are at: This is my first post to this board. My wife (Rox) and i were into swinging. I guess more me than her. But she really seemed to enjoy it when she did connect. So we met this one couple through a swinging board, I will call Bob and Jenn. We met with them the...
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