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Tracy

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I have this daydream sometimes. I think someday it would be amazing to date a couple of bisexual guys in a triad kind of arrangement. I'm pretty low maintenance, and really don't want to be anybody's primary significant other, if I can help it. I'm also (unfortunately) straight.

What are the odds of a single woman getting lucky enough to find a relationship like that?

Does it get better or worse if BDSM is thrown into the mix? (It's awfully easy for a woman who mostly likes to top to find one guy to go out with, but with two different people, that might make it harder to mesh.)
 
Not easy, but certainly not impossible or improbable. Hey, you might as well dream!

I try to ask for what I want-- of the universe, friends, family, work. Often I get it!
 
Nice dream!

Long-term relationship or just a couple of dates? I have no idea what your odds are. I'm just curious.
 
Definitely not impossible. I am a bisexual female, engaged to a man who was exclusively gay until he fell in love with me, and we are both dating a bisexual male. Our boyfriend is into the BDSM thing. I have never tried it before, but we are both working on making that aspect of things work. My fiance is not interested in BDSM at all, but doesn't have any problems with the boyfriend and me exploring it.

I'm not going to say it's the easiest relationship in the world for a girl to find, but I thought you'd like to know that there's a least one out there! Good luck. :)
 
I agree, totally not impossible, just complicated. :) If you like to top it might actually make it easier, cuz subbie guys might actually get off on being part of your "stable," or some such thing.
 
Nice dream. :D

I have been waiting to find such a constellation, to be honest, just out of curiosity how it would work out. More or less complicated than other mixes, same dynamics, etc.? I am involved with two males, but they are straight, and even if I have thought about how a possible bi scenario could work out, I am pretty sure THAT will never happen. :p

So dream on, and keep us informed if you ever happen to find your dream. Good luck. :cool:
 
thanks, Glee. That definitely cheers me up to know that you got that lucky. :)

And Annabel, you may be right that they'd get off on it, though the idea of having a 'stable' seems very silly to me.
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Tracy said:
And Annabel, you may be right that they'd get off on it, though the idea of having a 'stable' seems very silly to me.
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Well, that word could mean a lot of different things. :D You may be purely a top and not a dom, but since many bottoms are also subs, it may be worth considering the many potential submissive angles you could build into a scenario where two different men are both aiming to please you.
 
nycindie said:
Ooh, why?!! Although I don't fantasize about bi men who would be with me and each other, I'd love to have my own stable of men, all ready to please me! Yee-ha, giddyup, take me for a ride! :D
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Yes. That sounds fabulous lol

I have never really been interested in having two bi men interested in each other, but two men that got along well enough that I could sleep between them. EPIC...
 
I don't know what it is, but watching two men make out, have sex, etc., gets me very hot. Especially when it's my fiance and another guy. He's a very good-looking guy. Two hot guys getting it on? Whew. ;)
 
It sounds good to me, too! I've often wished my husband and bf were bi. NOT. They were capable of being deep friends, but sexually, there was no glimmer there. Oh, well. Nice to hear others have that dream, or are living it, though! :p
 
Exactly, Glee. 2 people I'm attracted to, both really into each other = hot. 2 people I'm attracted to both really into each other AND me = searing, melting, burning hot. Get one. Of them tied up and... well it's a good thing this is just a metaphor because I'd like to have my fantasy without vaporizing the earth. :)
 
We are a fourple. (See my other posts here). We all get along sexually. We have had threesome and foursomes and any position you could ever think of. My wife and gf think it's really hot when the two UBS play. I never thought I could deep throat another guy, or sit on him, if you know what I mean. But hey, I have learned not to judge others and to enjoy everything life has to offer, because it is far too short.
 
Correction

That should say US, lol:(
 
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