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    Smelly Ugly Feet?

    Whether we're talking feet, sox or shoes, it's not the sweat causing the stench, it's the bacteria that feed on the sweat. More specifically, it's the waste products created by the bacteria. EWW! :eek: Washing the feet works because it removes the wastes and reduces the bacteria population...
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    Smelly Ugly Feet?

    It'll be a touchy convo, so tread lightly. And Yeah, it's the stank that is your business, not the polish. Although, if you feel it's appropriate, you could give her a gift certificate for a nice pedicure. If you decide to go that route, pop for a good spa pedi. They're awesome, they feel...
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    What is this?

    Hi, and welcome to the forum. :) Sure sounds to me like you've got it going on. Good for y'all! Especially coming out of the unhealthy relationship you had before. As for your acquaintance, the one of whose triad you were highly critical: if you made her relationship grist for the gossip mill...
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    Smelly Ugly Feet?

    I feel your pain, BrotherMan. My sweetie one time decided to cut back on laundry expenses by wearing the same sox for a week. He was going for two, but the stench literally drove me out of the house. :eek: As for your co-worker: this is a pretty straightforward problem, really. Her offensive...
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    Looking for Interviews with Polyamorous Women

    Great. Thanks for the info, swheeler. This will be a good opportunity to make use of my local library's Inter-Library Loan program, since I'm SURE they won't have any of this research available directly.
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    Fun quiz

    # First thing you wash in the shower? My hair # What color is your favorite hoodie? Brown # Would you kiss the last person you kissed again? OH yeah, baby! # How are you feeling RIGHT now? Silly and fun # Tell me about the last dream you remember having? I was kicking my s-i-l to the...
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    Looking for Interviews with Polyamorous Women

    Hey guys, may I respectfully request an end to the hijack? Swheeler, I would be very interested in your research. I am not a candidate to participate, but would nevertheless be very interested in learning more about it, as well as the other studies done on other subsets of the community. Where...
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    What are you listening to now?

    My new dishwasher. Ah . . .:)
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    Polyamory in mythology and literature

    How 'bout the Greeks' Zeus (Jupiter to the Romans)? He certainly SHOULD have been up front with Hera (Juno) about all those other women/goddesses/woodland creatures . . . ;) Or to look at a different cultural tradition: the Old Testament of the Bible is chock full of polygyny. No polyandry that...
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    Looking for Interviews with Polyamorous Women

    Please describe the nature of the study you wish to conduct. In particular: What is your thesis?
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    Coping with a slow breakdown-suggestions?

    I can only say what I would do in your shoes. If my beloved was suffering the way you describe, I would do my best to jumpstart the communication between them. If he is emotionally paralyzed, he needs someone to advocate on his behalf. Open a dialogue. Put the issues right out there and let...
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    my first poly injury

    OUCH! :eek: Sorry! :( How is it today?
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    Whom I diddle is more important than my job?

    WAIT! :eek: I love rainbows too! :eek: I'm also a huge fan of sunshine, lollipops and kittens! CRAP! Are my dreams of being a productive member of society doomed? :rolleyes:
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    New member with a problem

    I, for one, would not consider any of this harsh. I'd say it was a fair, compassionate and even-handed response to a devastating series of injuries.
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    Redpepper's journey

    Oh my stars and garters! That is good news! Wow! *joins Breathesgirl's happy dance*
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    New member with a problem

    Yep. That's exactly what Fidelia would say. She (I) would also say that you are completely justified in feeling devastated and betrayed, and that it would be a completely reasonable course of action if you set his cheating ass on the curb and sued her for alienation of affections during the...
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    Tampa Church Inclusive of Triads and Polyamory

    I checked out the website. Looks like a very welcoming place. I'm glad you found a church home. Wish I could find one where I live!
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    When to drop the poly bomb

    I agree with all the previous respondents; sooner is better than later. Also: since you think Z hasn't got much romantic experience, be prepared to educate her somewhat on the subject of poly. Polyamory 101, so to speak.
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    Ugh. So frustrating

    *more hugs* :( Bless your heart. I'm glad for his sake he found the stones to clue you in, not that you hadn't already figured it out for yourself. And this way, at least he won't be holding up the line. ;) Allright, then. That, as you say, is that. What's the plan going forward? NeonKaos...
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