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I cast a second fote for LR's #3 & #4 there. I've never met a person who had any regrets along the lines of "Man, I wish I'd done more to encourage my friend in college to cheat on his girlfriend with me."

YAY!

I assume you have a long distance relationship? Is there any possibility of relocating to where she is? Even temporarily? Glad to hear she is coming for a visit, do you try to "live in the moment" when you are together or do you spend time dreading her eventual departure while she's there...

I live in Western NY (Buffalo). If you live anywhere near Rochester I know they have a poly group that meets monthly and has some very nice folks in it.

I've found myself wondering a few times how my relationship with H might have been different (possibly better) if we had the cast of characters that exist here and now in this place. And then I am also grateful that when the fit hit the shan that all of that madness didn't go public (having it...

Thanks for sharing this process violet. Sometimes the hardest person to communicate with is yourself. These are the kinds of posts that make it a joy to come to this forum.

Yes you are. :)

I think it's your browser and not the forum itself. The latest Firefox has spell check but the spellcheck dictionary does not include the word polyamory. If you click on the underlined word for spelling suggestions though it will have an option called "add to dictionary" and then: problem solved.

:) May your life never be boring. (but maybe be a little less exciting till you catch your breath)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E42QFSMMNOI

Wow. I talked to the producers and they said they are definitely going to extend the show for a second season.

:D

Making a link is SUPER easy. You can learn to use the little paper clip icon and that can help you make a link that says something in English while linking to something that's a web address. BUT It can be even easier than that. All you have to do is put in any valid web address and the...

Yay!

There are like a bajillion of you. Hello and welcome.

I am not of similar faith, but thanks, nonetheless.

A little more about gender, and why I retain these romantic notions about some balance: I feel like I thrive in both large and small lateral groups. I find that I do not do very well in hierarchical groups, at all. E.g., I'm the star, you're the fan; you're the boss, I'm the worker; I'm the...

Sometimes fear of vulnerability can come from not having done due diligence on step 1 (finding partners you can trust). In some cases like that your gut may be telling you 'if I allow myself to be vulnerable to this person they will use that to hurt me' and your gut will be right. But, if you...

so far.... excellent, all around

I was in a wonderful poly relationship for five plus years. During the times it was really working well we were really practicing the "communicate, communicate, communicate" mantra. When we started taking communication for granted was when we started to run into problems. I would...