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Is it vital that you work 45 to 50 hours a week? If so, you will probably have to do some comming to terms with the fact that a huge chunk of your waking hours every week are already gone. Assuming that your work schedule is immutable, you should probably figure out what your needs are and...

:eek: Wow. beautiful.

I love love. Falling in love. Being in love. Staying in love. The appeal of New Relationship Energy is fairly simple and obvious, but personally, I really have a thing for comfortable settled relationships (Old Relationship Energy (ORE)). Something about another year ticking by on the...

It is clear from what you have written here that Sue should cease smoking and roll around in a big pile of cinnamon branches and smudge herself with catnip smoke before coming over. Every time. Ignore this advice at your own peril.

Welcome. Thanks for the confetti.

In all relationships, the people in the relationships have the right to set and modify their own boundaries. If a person says I am comfortable with you dividing your attention between me and n other people, but I could never be comfortable with you dividing your attention between me and n+1...

If a person makes a statement that amounts to "I hate women," then calling them a misogynist is a bit of restating the obvious. It's like calling a person a racist after they state "I hate all the <insert ethnic slur>". The person's initial statement already includes an implied admission of...

The main poly oriented matchmaking website is called polymatchmaker.com and it is kind of hit or miss. It will let you search by state, province or country at least. Happy trails. Glad you found us here.

Thanks to both of you for sharing your experiences so far.

Once upon a time there was this guy who was about the biggest mama's boy ever. For the sake of the story we'll call him "me" (sometimes referred to as "I"). By "mama's boy" I don't mean to suggest that I had all of the traits stereotypically associated with mama's boys, but rather, that I had...

You are totally quality. I admire the way you move through this world.

Awesome! Congratulations.

Hello & welcome.

Advice? Um, continue enjoying your days? :)

Who has any interesting stories about the first time you met a significant other's other significant other? Tell it to us please.

I posted a thread here a while back fishing for anyone with a similar experience to mine and didn't come up with anything. People on this forum talk about being "wired poly" or "wired mono" quite frequently. Well, I was DEFINITELY "wired" mono, but presently feel like I could never be happy go...

I was in a position similar to yours once. I met an absolutely amazing woman, who was perfect in every way, except that she was polyamorous. I decided that we could just be friends. And then I fell in love with her. And then I began to hope that she would "grow out of it." And that didn't...

I can't figure out where on the forum technical/administrative questions should go, so I'm posting them here. 1. I have written a couple books that have a recurring poly theme running through them. Would it be acceptable for me to post excerpts from my books here or would that be considered...

Thanks.