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Hi there You have come to the right place, and you are brilliant for pursuing this and being willing to work at it. This shows your love and commitment to your wife and the value that you and your wife place on the relationship. All these fears are based on no evidence, and you are imagining...

I think we agreed, when I wrote later " Yes, I can see that if there are 3 people involved , then there needs to be consent between all 3 about what can / cant be shared."

Agree that "intimate" has different levels and Ive yet to meet anyone who wanted to know everything about me, so its perhaps not acheivable in a 100% way that my fantasy is. My last partner came closest to knowing me better than anyone ever, it was lovely. Yes, I can see that if there are 3...

I might be wrong here, but i guess "intimate" has many forms. But to me, keeping things private from your partner isnt intimate, is it? My broad view of poly is that it is multiple intimate relationships. Maybe im seeing it wrong ?

I dont have a problem with that either. Im just saying we are are generalising here.

Well, im going to meet a lady from a dating site, for coffee. My mind can only see my lost love, i want her back. But i am forcing myself to get out and meet people.

I was in a few mfm for a while and I had no problem with this.

lol, I love it. Well the thing is, Im in a break up and many people ask me what happened, and I guess I can easily conceal that it started as a V. I will try that from now.

Well, I think I need to keep my mouth shut about poly going forwards. Whilst I firmly believe in its benefits, and that it is a viable relationship choice for the right people, - so many people have said I need therapy, Im getting tired of it now. I also think , at 54, I have no hope of meeting...

I am away on a holiday to try and clear my head. Im still not fixed, i miss my love terribly. But im ok with it now, and my strategy is to wait and see if things work out with her new relationship.

It doesn't matter, but a cuckold situation seems to have a dom female and a sub male in the equation. If you don't mind your wife having a lover, and her lover respects you, and treats you fairly, not as if he "has one over you," then it's a balanced situation. There seems to be a general...

Still stunned that i was relegated to friend zone 2 months ago now :-(. Too early to try dating, but someone on here suggested "lovoo", and ive made some nice female friends on there now. It helps A bit But i miss my love :-(

I find that women are more willing to talk about relationship stuff in general, which is why most of my friends are women. I think men may often have that traditional view of owning somebody, too.

This is the best site for relationship advice, even for monos !

new year sort of made up for xmas. At least the (ex?)girlfriend is still communicating and I know whats upset her mostly. Hope 2015 is a good year for everyone.

I had an introduction session with a new counsellour and we hit it off great !

I would hang in there and see what happens. sooner or later T will be bold and stand up to her parents, if she thinks you are worth it. And its fantastic how supportive B has been!

How sad, Mya. Sorry for your loss.

Xmas sucks when you are own your own. My boys mom took him away at 9 am, then i sat like a mug in my flat on my own. How cheerful ! :confused: Luckily, family rescued me and invited me for lunch, and we laughed a lot, and i felt better about things a bit. Ex love txted me prolifically...