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Apparently, it is our privacy settings. I will check :-)

Hey I had the same when I went to your profile. What is that all about, I wonder?. I will send you a pm on there, lets see if that helps?

There is some good news though. The co I contract to has been jerking me around and sometimes takes 100 days to pay my invoices. I found a debt collector who gave them a wake up, and at last they have begun to catch up, and the next three months should be brilliant !

I am managing with minimal contact with lost love. Mostly I reply when she writes on txt / whatsapp. What a struggle after so much contact every day for the last 2 yrs plus.

That's lovely !

Hey Kevin, I like the way you think. Would you like to hook up on facebook? I am https://www.facebook.com/martin.yates1

Oh SparklePOP, im here in tears. Ive just lost a love and I know its because of this. Im guilty too of reacting wrong. But all I ever wanted was to communicate like the above. It takes courage of course and a will on both sides. But it reads so sweetly to imagine each other listening and being...

the confusing thing is that i have many devices, 2 ipads, a laptop and a phone, so I think what happens is that I am shown online when I might not even be looking at any of these.

Went to see a counsellor today. I think we will be ok working together, I will try and go bi-weekly. The old love contacted me today with some chit chat on facebook. She became a bit miffed when I didn't reply for about 4 hrs. Sh there is obviously some emotional attachment still. I'm not...

Am trying to not contact my ex love, its very difficult with her on my mind constantly. Went sailing in my little boat, I capsized twice, which was good, because I could stop thinking about her for about 2 minutes ! :D:D Ah well, I think she might come back. If not, Im not really interested...

We had all these plans that were going to come together now, Dec, Jan, and next year was going to be better. :-( Now it seems they are gone.

Some of you know I am going through a breakup. I travel for work and I was lucky enough to be in Holland for 2 iterations of the poly meet in Leiden. It was good to be at the meet, and to be able to speak about my situation. I felt validated , important, and listened to. The meet was well...

Wildflowers. I am getting up enough strength for a "no contact" period. I managed it today, really difficult to push through when I am crying my eyes out wishing we could have fixed it. It is probably teh best way too, if I have any hope of getting her to come back, then no contact is...

need hugs. Am very cut up over being shoved into the friend zone. ouch, it is difficult to grasp that the imagined future and good times that were coming, have disappeared now. :-( Hugs please, crying quite a bit here. The only good thing is that I went to a poly meet in Holland last night...

I managed 6 hours which is slightly better than any night in the last two weeks. This breakup sucks. We are still friends and whatsapp each day a few times. I will be strong and wait and see. I am doing self caring, i am exercising loads, reading, and my friends are being wonderful. I have gone...

Havent slept a night through in about 2 weeks now. Torn up about my lost love, I have tried to articulate how awful I felt when we argued and how her words have the power to stab me in the heart like a knife, and then get twisted. She is on my mind nearly 24/7. I hope we will rekindle in the...

Hug Single dump here and it is awful

The lost love and I emailled tonight. I wrote down how I felt, and she can digest it now. Maybe not to save us, maybe to take the feedback to the next relationship. I feel a bit liberated being able to write my frustrations out. She called me on some stuff, and I called her on a lot, too.

Gosh more whatsapp with the lost love tonight and disecting what went wrong. There is resentment on both sides, but chatting is good. Its better to get it out and it is far better to aire disappointments now. Again i feel selfish. I had a call with an old schoolfriend who thinks her sons...

Thanks Kevin. again we had a long chat on whatsapp yesterday and last night. The self hlep book is helping me, but it also forcing me took at myself, and why I am half to blame for her being fed up with me. It really hurts now to see how I could have done things differently. I react bad when...