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I play Magic: The Gathering with good friends. I drink a lot. I brew my own beer and wine. I love driving. I like cooking too, but I do it enough when I don't feel like it that it kind of ruins my desire to do it more often.

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Mono is so mono he doesn't use spaces between "Ha"s to avoid being polybaited. :P

The one part here that matters to me, given the history, is if you and he discussed his courting someone else before he did it. If not, I don't really see how what he's doing now isn't cheating. He's just not being secretive about it. Cheating is about violating the boundaries of the...

I love some of my friends as I love my wife. There are some experiences I will share with my friends that I won't be able to share and relate to my wife. The friends I'm thinking of are relationships that aren't yet sexual to me. They might never be. If you're interested in a non-sexual, yet...

I have to ask what kind of disconnect exists that the happiness of you wife or partner doesn't impact your happiness.

In my experience, the military has been quote hostile to anything that defies norm. Not a place I'd prefer to be as a critical thinker.

I have to say, it's a poly stereotype, but in my experience it's been true. And more than that, the poly-pagans have assumed that anybody "spiritual" enough to be poly are pagans. The anarcho-poly and atheist-poly folks get together monthly and laugh at them. :) I love you. :) I militantly...

Since this IS the topic of non-sexual intimacy, I'd also like to bring up the flip side of this, since I seem to be in the midst of this right now, and it's really delicate for me. I don't like to "define" my relationships. I sincerely believe that EVERY relationship should be taken for what it...

I'm an atheist for lack of a better term. I've heard someone toss out pantheism before, but that just strikes me as off. I can see why some people would think that poly folks are pagan though. From the internet, it appears as if most people who are poly are also interested in wicca and other...

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I've always thought the idea behind "I'm nothing without you" is a really shitty sentiment. I understand loss, confusion and the pain of relationships breaking apart, but perhaps this is telling. If you're making your relationships themselves the key part of your identity, you're putting who...

I love you, Erosa! Forever and always! Welcome to the forums. :)

Welcome to the forum. :) Don't be over worried about the terminology. One of the great things about poly in general is that there's no actual need to define things in terms others will get. There's all kinds of arrangements that are perfectly valid, and yours might fall in between some. And...

Cheating, either in a mono or poly relationship, is about a breach of trust. I'd most certainly call the situation you're in cheating when it's clear that it would be a violation of your trust and boundaries. Cheating is a betrayal of trust, a violation of the boundaries of the relationship...

Firstly, welcome to the forum. This sound like you need to chat more with your husband. I'm a man, and I can think of things I've prefer over two women, especially when love is involved. Alcohol (and I'll assume your drug of choice is alcohol...) doesn't make you do things you'd not normally...

I am a member of the Free State Project. The mascot of the FSP is a porcupine. I like to drink, and I brew my own beer. Drunken + Porcupine. My avatar is a modification of the FSP logo.

I considered that when describing Stitch, but I figure if anybody can cross-reference it, they can't use it against me. :P