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Boy with an ugly nose.

I have no piercings. The idea of holes in my body creeps me out, but I don't mind piercings on other people. I have a tattoo, and plan to get more once I find something I absolutely love. I've got Stitch, from Disney's Lilo and Stitch, on my right arm. It has no special symbolism to me...

Red.

My complaint was with her implication that children are the primary aspect of a relationship. From your follow-up posts, it seems pretty clear to me that you're not degrading a swinging relationship because it's not poly. But I suspect that the author of that post DOES. Every person has a...

Yeah, I suppose that's what bothered me there too. I am childfree. I don't want kids. So to me, "children" are merely another aspect to my life, like my hobbies, my friends, my pets, my career and so on. My wife doesn't give a damn about my hobbies, other than that they interest me. I don't...

This situation sends up all kinds of red flags for me. She's getting married, but this hasn't been communicated to you before now? To me, poly is about being able to let relationships evolve to whatever they may become. While I understand rules play a big part in a relationship, I have to...

Arnold Schwarzenegger.

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Personally, I think the antipathy between "poly" and "swinging" is kind of... I dunno the word. I want to say collectivist, but it's not what I mean. When I first began exploring myself, I connected with a poly group in my soon-to-be area. They had a heavy emphasis on children and families, and...

I said I'd keep my politics off of the forum, but this is one that itches to be mentioned. To me, marriage has nothing to do with the state. It has everything to do with commitment and love for other people. I see no reason why a poly family couldn't have multiple marriages. Some places...

It's hard to change minds and influence people if you come across as an asshole. :) I respect my neighbors as I want them to respect me. I've learned to back off when I'm becoming too heated or aggressive, and really, just about everybody wants the same thing. What we differ on is how to go...

I've been a lurker for a little while, but decided I'd hop in here and get to know folks and let them get to know me. I'm a fairly young male. I've been married for 6 years, and in the very beginning we had the monogamy talk. So while we've been monogamous for the past 6 years we both...