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and also this from SourGirl - "The other option is to keep super-calm, super-understanding, and hope that it all sorts itself out. Meanwhile you can read 30 books on compersion, learn to lawn bowl, and waste 3 years of your life driving yourself crazy desiring physical intimacy. :(" As...

Flopswoggled... Love it. As much as you may not want the advice, it seems obvious to me that this R is just not stable enough for a relationship with either of you. But there are many many people in the world. Almost 7 thousand million of us. You will find others more suited. Personally, I...

Wellington.

I like what you said Meera. However, I do agree that it was only your experience. In my experience, I knew all about the workings of sex, and that it was used for pleasure, from a very young age, possibly 6 or so. I began experimenting with masturbation at about age 9 and also began seeing...

I'm not exactly sure what you're asking?

Resistance.

According to a lot of scientific study, the latter isn't so strange. Even in real life, we do a similar thing. When there are more females and fewer males, the females "fight" for dominance, trying to get "their male." And of course the opposite way, but the former is where the first world...

I absolutely love this from Indie. You say you're been with this woman for 13 YEARS! How slow is slow, exactly?

Keep hiding who you are, and see how much better it makes you feel, not being able to be yourself. It will hurt. That's what my experiences say. I had enough control to change that and just be out with myself. To BE myself... and I really can't describe the relief and freedom I feel from it...

"My mono partner is a very vulnerable person, an understanding soul, but very nervous about non-traditional beliefs. Hence just "coming out" and being honest may in fact be very painful to them. And yet hiding who I am to them seems dishonest. It's a bit of a Catch-22." Just come out with...

Pomeranian? Ha!

BBCode is Bulletin Board Code. Made especially for use on Internet Forums. It's just a simple way to code things, without giving anyone power to attack the site, such as HTML would. Picture URL is literally the URL of the image, which you can find by right clicking and selecting "copy image...

Quite alright. That site is the best site to go to for law stuff too. It's the UK government site. It would be great for it to be easier for all 3 in a surrogate situation to get time off. Just because you aren't the mother in the sense of giving birth, you are still the legal mother. and it's...

Mother and father of the child only, yes. "Surrogate parents If you and your husband, wife or partner are having a child through surrogacy you will not normally be eligible for Statutory Maternity or Adoption Leave. However you will be eligible for unpaid parental leave once you have got a...

The way I see that is like in a poly triad, then one of you breaks up and your now ex partner says "oh yeah, and I'm taking your other partner with me"... I just can't understand that stuff at all.

+1 to that. It's when I'm at my worst too, when I'm tired. There's a lot of science in the phrase "sleep on it". Because you'll wake up with a clear mind and be able to put your thoughts into something a lot easier. When you are tired, it is your logical brain that gets the hit first. Leaving...

It is a rather good one. I enjoy the "Three men go into a bar, one of them is a little bit stupid and the whole scene plays out with a tedious inevitability."

Been in that kinda situation myself. Feels much better once you free yourself from it. As others mentioned too, why can't you rent a flat [appartment] to live in? Especially with other people to share the bills with you. and this is one of few situations I have to say, there is really no chance...

*goes right over his head*... Think I need to start getting more sleep. =P

"Okay right flirting with someome who is clearly in a relationship is just wrong full stop, especially if they know it, there's no "it's their fault if they aren't loyal" to target someone in a relationship just shows how much that person lacks in decency, secondly having witnessed girls...