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I agree with Gala and Kevin. They said it much better than I could, so I want to say I'm sorry you're dealing with this. Tell him that you are willing to do poly, but what you need before that can happen in a healthy and happy way you need: a) to not be in a place of turbulence, b) to really...

I don't want the control to say who they will and won't date! If my opinion is asked I'll give it; but unless there was a real reason I can't see saying "don't date person X" Even when a date of Z's came over (their 3rd date) and blatantly mocked me to Z, and I overheard; I didn't say "Don't...

My ex meta and I had completely different tastes in how sex went. We orgasmed in different ways too. So judging how sex works between Person A and Person B as the rule for between person A and Person C doesn't work so well. Rocky how? Rocky why? Has your GF had kids? Being pregnant changes...

This happened during a threesome with me and M; he got excluded by accident. He learned he needed to speak up and make sure he stayed involved. Story time that may help soothe you! I can't handle how Z eating me out feels. It's too sensitive when he does and it has to be really short or else...

This one I'm torn on. Because it shouldn't be your responsibility to discern if he's essentially lying to you. If he lies and says it's okay when it's not, then that's a him problem. And sometimes, our voices just sound kinda blah or distracted when we aren't. I'd say if it sounds less than...

I'd be what's called a "demi-girl", but I prefer Non-binary since it feels more accurate in it being more vague and demi-girl sounds silly to me. Basically, I can roll with my AFAB and it works well enough; but I have zero emotional connection to my genitalia and really have times where I...

I'd try to find out why she made this boundary. What is your gender make up? M/F wanting to be with another M/F couple? Maybe she is worried about not being special sexually in some wayif you're with another woman? I think that maybe she has an underlying concern, that she may not even able to...

So....? I've gone two weeks without; sex is not a mandatory thing for a vacation. If kids are really the no 1 priority, not having sex shouldn't be too hard of a thing to manage. I'm editing to add this: It really feels like you're just wanting to hear the community agree with your choices and...

How recently? 4 people all dating each other? Coupling off? Swinging? What's the plan? What happened? Only move as fast as the slowest person. Talk about boundaries, and most importantly WHY does she have them. What purpose does boundary/rule X serve? This is a lesson I had to learn...

I really feel like the weekend should be sex free. Y'all can wait. Kids wake up randomly, this is the first vacation as a throuple. Sex can wait, different tent or not.

I think that's true for everyone, I'm sorry if I came across differently! There have been a few poly articles on my cities local news. So, my city is kinda getting there? Calgary is a weird city. Super conservative but also really not. I know my neighbours are furries, but that's because...

Hi! I'm always here to listen and chat if you need! My inbox is always open! I also have anxiety! I get anxious about things not even on the horizon; but that only exist in a hypothetical. The things that mainly trigger my anxiety are t hings that make me feel like I'm making my partners...

I agree completely! Definitely empathy is key in this. I know that there will be no unilateral reconciliation of ideas for a long time to say the least.

Thank you for giving us more info! It's really helpful. I'm sorry that some of the things said hurt you. Also, I want to say that I do agree with the other posts by GalaGirl and Kevin. They're both very level headed and give great advice. I definitely agree that this could be part of why you...

I agree 100% Just remember, respecting kids boundaries is important; but so is being the adult in the situation and making the educated, reasonable, and responsible decisions.

I want to clarify before answering. Is the person you're giving the option to divulge things to someone you're dating? If so, were they dating people while dating you?

I get this completely. I know in my city, lots of the poly people I talk to feel it is part of the queer spectrum. But, my city is also pretty good; no where near perfect, but not horrible. The last time I was badly bullied for being queer was grade 10 and grade 10 only. They tried to beat the...

I'm sorry you had to deal with someone breaking a boundary. That is always hard. You should also enforce to her that she broke a boundary; you can't hear about their relationship in the same way. She has to listen. Nip it in the bud now; especially since she's done it with stuff with Kyle...

Hi! I definitely agree with above. Personally, I have met people who like being the "unicorn ", but that was something they found out. And if he didn't respect your boundaries at work, he probably wouldn't now. Don't do anything that you don't want, listen to your gut. It feels hinky...

The fact she caught on and Angela didn't seems weird. To me Angela should have noticed. I can super see why you're upset Let us know when you all talked or if you need anything!