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A good analogy for very hierarchical relationships with more of a comet or FWB other partners situation rather than a LTR. My only thing is...what happens if you want to go to new bands performance more than originals? Do you just always and forever bump one to second even when it isn't what...

I don't think the conversation went poorly; but that's from my end of the keyboard. Somethings aren't smooth but they aren't bad because of that. I think you definitely need to tell her all of your fears about this; how you're afraid it may affect your sexual attraction to her, how you have...

Would you have been as upset if your son wasn't there? It sounds like one of the main things upsetting you is that your child got ignored by their father for sex.

In the end it's a personal choice that very much so depends on where we are in our lives. The difference between 50-60 is not a huge 10 years. Between 10 and 20...that's pretty huge. Half my age + 7 is that cultural standby. So if you're 50, 32 would be the lowest age. I personally wouldn't...

I do understand this kinda gut instinct level feeling. However...Both Z and I wish that B was at least a guest in our wedding now with hindsight. We had only done some flirting at that point...and that's one reason Z was hesitant to invite him. They hadn't been friends for more than a few...

INtrospection. Why am I feeling the ways I'm feeling? A lack of creativity and dedication can lead to a boring and stagnant sex life and life in general. After 10 years of being with the same partner, even before finding poly, we were never bored. We started poly with just intending to only do...

Exactly! Either way, it was gorgeous and amazing and still kinda surreal

I think so. But he didn't want his family there because they're...dramatic. so it's his choice

Oh she knows about the poly! Just not the marriage

Z and I had more lighthearted and shorter ones. Although B did not tell his mom this was happening so...she found out via a Facebook relationship status change I can tell she is not happy

Im sooo lucky Z gave me the heads up Bs was much longer and more emotional than my original one so I had time to make it less of a comedy hahaha

Mine were.... "Mawwage again bwings us togeda two day What we have isn't what could be called conventional, but it is beautiful. Let's be honest, being normal is far too boring. I could stand here and tell you how much I love you, but those words mean nothing unless they are shown through our...

Today was the daaay! FYI I'm mildly drunk. Excuse any weirdness in the writing. I wanna say that from start of getting ready to end it took me...2.25 hours. I mean, I looked amazing. My eyebrows alone took like 30 minutes But frick. When them boys came out of the hotel towards me, Z of course...

Only this city. I want Canada to steal this singular city. Every Canadian I have ever met is like "Isn't idaho...horrible?" I only come to this city for a reaaaason

I have all of my planet signs but not my partners so I'll just do everyones sun signs Me- Cancer (I attract other cancers like flies* I'm also a hufflepuff) B- Virgo (And a Gryffindor!) Z- Leo (ALso a Gryffindor. I'm surrounded) A - Aquarious Z and B and I are NPs; so we definitely balance...

I have all of my planet signs but not my partners so I'll just do everyones sun signs Me- Cancer (I attract other cancers like flies* I'm also a hufflepuff) B- Virgo (And a Gryffindor!) Z- Leo (ALso a Gryffindor. I'm surrounded) A - Aquarious Z and B and I are NPs; so we definitely balance...

My polycule (MFM V) is on vacation and for dinner last night we had milkshakes; the waitress say "Your milkshake did bring all the boys to the yard!" (Not in a mean way but in genuinely a fun loving and accepting way.) She then looked as if she would get into trouble; I literally started...

Thank you for coming to the forums, hopefully we help you figure stuff out. Not all relationships last forever; but thy can bring good into our lives regardless of their duration. As Vinsanity said, don't go into this hoping she will change and become mono, or have children with you. This...

This is definitely a tough situation and I'm sorry you have to go through it. I do agree with Dingedheart that your meta shouldn't have been surprised that this happened. She posted in a public forum; on facebook you can literally say "everyone but these people can see", and if she didn't...

Oh I was 100% open and honest and so was he; if we had just been turned on by either of our partners we'd be like "hey, X made me horny wanna have sex?" It definitely was never a secret and when we first started non-monogamy, it was just sexual. At this point in my relationship with B it was...