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Hi, my husband is leaving our romantic relationship, although it is not very clear to anyone why. Poly plays a part, but I have dated another man almost 4 years and they get along, I have met my second inlaws etc. My husband had a girlfriend during the first year I dated the other man. For the...

I am unsure what is the best way to go about these things. But I have a timeline. Husband says the we need to sort things out by summer. It is not strictly an ultimatum, but more so than our earlier talks. He seems a little envious that "boyfriend and I make each other so happy", even if at...

Yes, I think so. I mean we would never have contemplated legal divorce if it was not for the LDR, then we would just make due with legal councelling to take care of wills and money. The LDR is also very draining financially and logistically. It is also hard for my boyfriend and my husband to get...

I am trying to do that. I told him that I aqknowledge that our relationship have not exactly been a priority, and I cancelled all future plans. To be honest I was a little relieved, I guess I too was not a 100% ready to make big changes. Our practical and financial situation is not great, and I...

Hi, summary; my husband dobuts poly after four years of me dating my boyfriend. What am I going to do? the full text; my husband says things have changed for him. He is not as comfortable with poly as he once was. He had a girlfriend for a short while a few years ago, and said after that he...

Yes, it will be "legally re-structuring of the family", as the Browns family put it. We have contacted two lawyers; one local lawyer to help us write and update wills (to secure my husband after divorce), and one immigration lawyer to help us with the immigration process. We plan to write a...

Could be fun, but after 13 years of dating and 7 years of marriage the consummation part is already taken care of ;) Willowstar: Going for a 2nd honeymoon is a great idea! Other ideas I found online: Have a small dinner party with close friends, with formal invites, have the photo album from...

My long distance boyfriend/fiance of 3 years lives in a different country, 2900 miles away with at least 6 hours travel in high season, up to 26 hours in off season. I have already used tons of money to travel to visit him, and my husband has also payed to see him. It is hard for him to visit...

I plan a legal divorce with my husband (for immigration purposes for my boyfriend). This is a huge sacrifice, and I want to make sure that my husband understands that in my heart nothing has changed. He loved getting married, and I want him to have that feeling still, even if he will not legally...

Than you :) I will have a talk with my doctor :)

We are considering going for a legal divorce to be able to stay together as a family in one country. I know some who married one of their partners who do this, but have any of you experience with legal divorce and remarriage? So far as I have read the marriage and immigration laws in my...

Hi, my boyfriend did not complain at all, it is just me trying to be ahead of things (especialy since he would probably not complain even if he felt like it). Knowing I have diaphram as an option, as suggested elsewhere in this thread (since we dont have to worry about std's) widens our options...

Hi, I did not think of that! FemCaps and female condoms are unavailable in my country, but diaphrams should be. I will have a word with my doctor :)

That's great to hear :)

I plan having a child with my husband, who I have the longest relationship with. Boyfriend dont want a child with me now, but is positive towards this pregnancy. We are currently fluent bonded and I use hormonal birth control. I wondered about others in this situation: - How did the other...

English/Norwegian sociology researcher Audrey Stark has public acess'ed her master thesis, based on 8 in debth interviews with members of the Norwegian polyamory network. Stark was just featured on Norwegian radio in relation to the 17th of September 2016 foundation of a Norwegian polyamory NGO...

Just wanted to let everyone know that we have started up a Norwegian poly NGO and was just featured in our national press. Norwegian NGOs are usually quite heavily founded by national state and local communities alike, so once we are registered in the NGO data base, we might get founding to get...

In connection to the public start up of the Norwegian polyamorous NGO PolyNorge, the national press was in touch even before the start up. The past two days, poly people were featured in national news channel, NRK, 3 times; The 17th of September in a radio interview (featuring a polyamorous...

This focus on homeschooling is interesting. We practically dont have homeschooling in my country, it is almost never done. Most people send their children to the local school, those who dont send their children to our countries very few private schools. My younger siblings went to Catholic...

Ok. There are different laws everywhere. In my country, it is never illegal to have more than one partner, even where children is involved. There is a high profile in my country where the man has children with both women. They only worry if one partner is suffering somehow. Sadly, getting...