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Page 5. Halfway mark to my prediction.

Oh. I thought it was more like he had a relationship earlier but freaked out when she had one and decided to call a halt to the whole thing.

Agree. Not just calling the police but also presenting the relationship as him being abusive and manipulative. Sounds very much like setting the stage for shoving a big knife in his back when it comes to the divorce.

Simplest solution is probably to change to a doctor who doesn't know about your vasectomy. Getting a birth control prescription is not rocket science. That person could also handle any STI testing etc with minimal awkwardness. That said, a doctor's job is not to moralize. It doesn't matter what...

Few are lucky to have a job they enjoy. It clearly provides her with a "no strings" sexual outlet. I wouldn't see this as any different from say.... watching porn while masturbating. Unless you experience a detrimental effect in how she is with you - in that case, it is a problem going on in...

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MrOriginal2, your wife sounds like she took you for granted, then got bored and moved on to a new relationship in a most irresponsible and cruel manner. If all that you say is true, you apparently have a tendency to bend over backwards to cater to her wishes and all I can say is that while this...

Poly can get complicated enough without inventing trouble when the going is good. Don't borrow trouble and treasure and enjoy what you have. If you don't want to "hide" your relationship, you don't have to. You don't owe the world any explanations. You can simply be yourself and affectionate...

If you want suggestions on things to work with in therapy, I'd recommend beginning with personal autonomy and boundaries. The difference between learning to adjust with a situation and manipulating others to reduce own discomfort for him. You probably also need to work on assertiveness and not...

You say you are poly, so start acting poly. How is your partner unilaterally making rules for your life? If he can't cope, he can walk out. You thought he couldn't cope and tried to walk out, he insisted he can handle it. But he appears to be handling you and your other partner rather than...

If my post struck recognition, one positive thing i can say on the front of the above sentence is that if a man recognizes the problem with whatever I had an ethics issue with and makes an effort to overcome it (as opposed to not caring or thinking I'm making a fuss about something that doesn't...

And why not. Only constant of life is change. Neither of us are the same people we were 10 years or 4-5 relationships ago. We learn with each relationship, we prioritise our desires from a relationship differently with experience. Makes sense. However, in that case, you probably should be...

Doesn't sound like you would crush his heart by discussing - at the very least. He sounds like he would be ok with you being poly. Which pretty much takes care of your fear of having to share him. It could even turn out to be a "solution" that allows you greater closeness with your Daddy...

Disengage with him ASAP. Engage with your gf if you must, but frankly, she's headed for a wreck and not much you can do about it if all of what you say is factually correct and she remains infatuated. If you have a history of abuse and you've attempted suicide over this once, I'd recommend...

It may help to recognize that she is using your perfectionist insecurity to play games with you.You are perfectly yourself. You aren't some performing monkey that she can describe sex acts for you to practice and become perfect in. What is really happening here is that she is using your...

This doesn't sound so much an issue of you freaking out as she knowing how to push your buttons and pushing them. That is what she is telling you. Clearly part of her kick is kicking you where it hurts to complete the enjoyment of whatever she is doing with the other partner. You could begin...

I can relate with this totally. All through me being in a relationship, I always have a heightened sense of interest toward partner. Very close to NRE. Losing this usually means the end of the relationship. I don't know what it feels like to be complacent about a relationship and I don't like...

Just read this thread again and wanted to say that you, SexySerb have a very useful habit of straight talk, which allowed you to state your problem without unnecessary whitewashing or blame games and accept the feedback. I think it is a useful skill that puts the "sexy" in the SexySerb ;) Much...

I understood you to mean that you're happy with your relationship with Daddy. You have a threesome fantasy that Daddy is arranging for you fulfill with someone else. You are concerned that you have developed feelings for this other person whom you will visit for the threesome and have started...