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Thank you. I understand, by agreeing to an ethical non-monogamous relationship, I cannot take physical intimacy off the table, and any relationship agreements can be reviewed regularly.

Yes, I have done that. It’s now up to me to manage my feelings under this new structure and give my wife the time and space she needs, without my insecurities. I have inadvertently caused so much pain and I really need to stop trying to make sense of it. It’s so tough to adjust, but I am...

Thank you so much for some calm and informed advice. We are desperately trying to work through it. I am struggling, as I am conflicted often by what I have read. I will look into the resources. Hopefully others will contact us on this I thread in similar situations. The love they share for...

We are finding it tough, as neither my wife or the NR want it to become physical, and it’s one of the boundaries we agreed to. When I posted on other forums, we got a lot of hate for that. It’s confusing, as I was under the impression poly wasn’t just about sex, it’s about deep emotional...

We are looking for some support groups or advice. My wife (f41) and I (f43) have been in a relationship for 16 years. We have always been monogamous. These past few months my wife has started to express feelings towards poly structures. She has met another woman whom she is deeply connected to...