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I want to share how happy I am after talking with Nerdist on the phone about some things that had come up for me. It feels really safe to be honest and be accepted... and to hear honesty back. Mostly, I am enjoying how good it can be to nurture the parts of us that do connect, knowing the parts...

That would be my advice to vandalin. I would approach her and express that I'm feeling ______ about the way our relationship has changed. Derby, if you just want to cut ties then I agree with Mono. Let her come to you. Doesn't have to be more complicated than that. But, if you're feeling hurt...

I searched the forum and haven't found a topic solely on this, so I'm starting one. (Hopefully I've searched thoroughly enough). I just got off the phone with Nerdist and we talked a little bit more about what we would like with each other if I do indeed move away. In my heart, I'm feeling most...

Thanks. :)

That's wonderful Derby!! The feeling of belonging is so primal, eh? I've been questioning this a LOT in myself lately, so it's very nice to hear you say this. I feel very happy for you and all your links in the chain... I know I'm kind of one of them, but not feeling solid enough to really feel...

I don't remember Mono being passed out. I remember him making noises (teasing me) in the back seat as I got out. :p

LR, why does she call Maca Daddy? What does she call GG?

Hmm. Raw food book?

Really!?! I had a gyno exam a few weeks back and completely forgot to take my Diva cup out. HAHA! The Dr. asked me about it and I giggled. Didn't know you could have sex with it in too.

Oooh, a couple Christmasses ago, I made a vegan, raw cheesecake to die for! (Discovered an allergy to cashews afterwards, but that's besides the point, it was to die for!) I need to send Nerdist home with my raw cook book when he comes to visit. So many yummy things in there.

Wonderful, thank you. :)

Hi Anne. I came into polyamory when I met a man who introduced me to it. I had been single for two years, so I was definitely not opening up an established relationship. I had always felt very strongly that I was a loyal, faithful partner and never entertained the idea of an open relationship...

Wow KT, that's amazing! Good for you!

Wow, what a story! Thanks for sharing.

LOL! Put in this way, it does sound rather funny. Hope it wasn't too much of a disaster. RP, if I were covered in pee, I'd hope for the same. LOL! :D Nothing stops me from buying another car. I just resist it because it's such a hassle. No, I didn't have to leave. I chose to leave to be...

Mono and Derby, thank you so much for being supportive. I'm still a little taken aback by how supportive and welcoming this poly community has been. I did read this. :) I agree. It is wonderful to take time to let things fall into place. The rush is 100% about my own life and comfort...

I'm going to continue this here. It's not a story of success and happiness, so it belongs in my ongoing, "Oh my god, wtf, I'm ungrounded" thread. ;) (I'm still confused about who RP's tertiary is.) I get exactly what you mean about energy. It's something I've based a lot of my life on. This...

Oh, at one point your boy seemed mad when we were making noise and he couldn't sleep. But the mice and the raccoons were far more "obnoxious." ;)

I can imagine!!! You clearly really love RP to go through the intensity and come out the other side so well-integrated. You really are all such a good fit!

I think the best way to describe how I feel is stunned. I had a whole other agenda going on... I just wanted to meet like-minded poly folk. Was not looking for a relationship, just to meet people who I could be open with. And my thoughts have been on so many other things. My career, my housing...