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Oooh, just saw a picture of the ring. Niiiice!! I'm gushy.

Oh, I'm in NVC geek lala land. LOL!!! I was going to reply to this thread and talk about Maslow. Actually, RP, it was you who said to me at the first poly meet I went to "What about what you want?". I was saying that I didn't need a relationship because I could meet all my own needs. This was...

Yeah, me too. Not very coordinated. :p

oh?? ;)

KT, I don't really know what to say other than I hope you find inner strength and happiness in all of this. RP, I really feel for what you're going through. I am working hard at owning my part and not feeling guilty. I would like to encourage and nurture whatever new connections form between...

But you have rollerskates!!

Yes, I've read that thread and I love that concept. I've used it consciously a few times since reading it.

Who are you kidding Mono, everything's a race to you, no? Hmm... who can show compersion to RP & Nerdist the quickest? tee hee

Yes, speechless. I feel like I need to say something, but really, I am just happy. I want to feed the love between everyone as much as I feel like I've been fed, if that makes any sense. Derby, no kidding! And thank you, that assuaged my fears. It's a lot to come to terms with.

You're a nut and I love it!

Wow. I'm a bit blown away. Yeah, I do find it funny that we have the same tattoo and the same initials, same hair colour... LOL! To be fair, look at Nerdist and Mono. You have a type, my dear. ;) In this vain, I think I have two types. And I'm starting to think that a balance between the two...

Later? You mean there's more? ;)

I agree. Thankfully, I find compersion so darned easy. How can you not get all fuzzy inside!? So, then the question I have is how to know the difference between the feelings you have for the person and the feelings you have for the circumstances. It's never clearcut. Could RP and Mono have...

Geez, what's the etiquette on a marriage announcement if "we're getting to know each other" warrants card stock?!?! :D All jokes aside, I'm going to pat myself on the back for avoiding crawling under one of those shells outside my door.

Thanks ksandra, yes very helpful.

Where were you when I was in my 20s! ;)

I know you don't come on here much, so I'm thankful that you participated in this thread, Nerdist. :) Hee hee, I think LR has a crush on Nerdist too. :p I think there's a lot for everyone to think about and that's ok, it's all part of adjusting to new connections. I'm also really grateful that...

haha!!!

I LOVE it!! Good for all of you!!

Ok, yes, Roly has a big crush on Nerdist. Better? Oh hardy har. YGirl was right. We're worse than a gaggle of teenagers at a Beatles concert. Yes!! Living in a community with 400 people, things get around FAST. It means people talk more, but it also means that if a potential relationship...