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Today I'm feeling equally secure and insecure in my relationship with Jasmin. We had a pretty up and down evening yesterday. She was feeling anxious about non-relationship-related stuff and said she really wants to be home, so I suggested we change the plan so that I go to hers instead, since we...

Oh man, I had SUCH a good time with Marco yesterday (and this morning :D)! We have a lot of chemistry, and the sex is pretty incredible. It's everything I hoped for when I went back to OKC last time. He's a very good sub. Yesterday we talked about how this thing of ours has a time limit and how...

It definitely adds an interesting layer to my reading. :D

Jasmin has given me a lot of time and attention recently and I've been really enjoying that. :) The first night we saw each other after being apart was pretty intense. We had some great talks, and among other things figured out that we have a tendency to try to go a bit too easy on each other...

Yeah, it really was. :)

Ooooooh, how exciting! :D It is so cool to read about you and Dustin. I hope things go well between the two of you and that Rider is understanding about it! It's always fun to have a bit of a butterflies in the stomach situation. :) And also, way to go with the communication skills!

I've just come back home from my trip to the USA. I had such a lovely time! I visited four different cities and got so many new experiences. :) I spent most of my time travelling with my two mono straight friends, but I had an evening here and there where I met up with someone queer and/or poly...

It was so lovely to meet you, Cherry, Rider and the others! :) He was a really nice guy, so I can't say I blame you for having a crush on him. :D

It seems that Jasmin and Layla have transitioned into a more friend-type relationship rather than partners. They still see each other semi-regularly, but what I gather from Jasmin is that they've stopped having sex a while ago and they don't really do overnights anymore either. So they see each...

Thanks Meera! I've now had four dates with the guy I've mentioned in the last few posts, the one I said I quite like. I think this is becoming something, so I'd better name him. Let's call him Marco. On our last date we had a conversation about what we're feeling and where this is going. It was...

I organised a birthday surprise to Jasmin a week ago. It combined a few things I know she likes, and it ended up being a great success. She loved it, and I loved making it happen. :) It was such a happy day! She wrote a post about it on Facebook and added some pictures as well, one of them was...

You're definitely not alone. I'm like that too, and I've had several partners who have been similar. My NRE has bled over to my other relationships and I've gotten to enjoy my partner's happiness with someone else affecting mine and the shared partner's relationship positively.

Last weekend Jasmin had a party. That was the first time I properly talked to her new partner. I should probably name him since he's coming up a lot these days - let's call him Kaspar. So we kind of dove straight to the deep end. We had barely had any small talk before, but at this party...

I'm so happy for you, Reverie! Things seem to be going really well for you right now, that's awesome to see. :) And congratulations on your marriage!

Thanks PinkPig! :) A bit of an update to this situation: The thing I feared is kinda happening. Jasmin is having second thoughts about moving. It's not only because of her new partner, but he is a big part of it for sure. She still sees the downsides of our current city and will most likely...

I wanted to share a funny/sweet moment between Jasmin and I. We were talking about sex with other people and I fondly remembered one person I slept with in February. I spent two really awesome nights with him. Jasmin said in a cheerful voice: "Ah, [name]. We like [name]. He's a good man." I...

So, this date happened. It was quite interesting. We had a good kinky dynamic that I enjoyed very much. And he was VERY cute. But we also had a few quite basic incompatibilities that I'm pretty sure will prevent us from becoming anything more than occasional lovers/fwbs. I mean, that and also...

I had a very interesting conversation with Jasmin yesterday. We talked about the fact that she has this new partner that she's in deep NRE with (plus one longer-term partner besides me) whereas I don't have other partners at the moment, but I sleep around with others. I mentioned that one guy I...

Another thing that happened recently was that me and Jasmin took a trip to the countryside over Easter. We both did some art, she painted and I played an instrument, sang and wrote a song. We slept a lot. We took a nice nature walk. We talked about a million things and bonded a lot. We had great...

I've been on a few first dates recently. It's been pretty fun! I've made it clear on my OKC profile that I'm planning on moving out of the country at some point, so I'm not looking for anything long-term. I've been on three first dates and I have one more coming up this week. The first one I...