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Aussiekate, it would be a beautiful life if we all aged the same, at the same time, in the same place in our relationships. But alas, we do not. There is nothing more nerve-wracking than a spouse who is not on the same page or moving at the same time. Been there, done that. IMO, many a marriage...

Hi, Aussiekate. I haven't been active on this site since my divorce nearly 5 years ago. I can very much appreciate where you're coming from. I can also appreciate where your husband is coming from and what he is feeling. Some people are just so locked in to the monogamy angle and the...

How about lucky?

Thanks for sharing your latest, Mono. It's always great to hear how you are all doing. It's a great thing to see, when people are willing to take chances like you all have, work hard and come out on the brighter side of things. I know all too well it's a tremendously hard journey. You three...

Excellent post RP. Tough questions indeed. Person A gives 100% for 25 years. Person B gives 100% 10 years. Persons A and B develop other interests. Life happens. Shit happens. Needs go unmet. Affairs happen to meet needs......and on and on and on. How many times have we all seen/heard/done...

You could always be the "let me show you the door" girl. lol

Maybe I'm a little out of touch with some poly folks, but is it customary to start making out with some chick the first poly event you go to? Whatever happened to a meet and greet, learn a little and make a date for some other time? Do we all now move right into the next make-out chick at our...

Crisare, you are bang-on here. Run away. Run away fast.

I still say there's something in the water way up there in Canada!

Enjoy the forum, it's a great place.

Welcome to the forum......don't see any reason as to why there would be any discrimination toward you here. There are so many open minded people on here for you to converse with.

Absolutely awesome for all of you! You all have my sincerest wishes for many, many more years of love and happiness.

That's wonderful, Mono. I couldn't be happier for you, brother.:)

Glad you all had a great time, guys. Happy Birthday RP. You know, I bet you can get a job in Vegas, taming those two tigers of yours. ;)

LR, yes, a family. It has a wonderful sound and feeling to it.

Ceoli is entirely correct. You have to make sure of your total health, and that includes the psychological side in order to proceed. And besides, Robin already told you she's not open to poly, and you're married, and I presume still love and want to stay married to Lee? So, it won't work with...

Thanks for the props, RP. Lovely, first let me state that coming exactly from where your husband did, he never meant to hurt you or break your heart in all of this. My situation is remarkably similar to yours, and to many more out there in the real world, I'm sure. But very few of us get to...

It's amazing the similarities in all our relationships, RP. For me, as a man, a little bit of clinginess is not a bad thing, makes me feel m-a-n-l-y. My wife isn't very clingy, while my OSO can very much be. The night owl thing I definitely identify with. My wife does not want to be awakened...

RP, I'm sorry I'm a bit late to the discussion. Like you, I myself feel that I could not get by without my two wonderful women in our V. They are the perfect complement to each other and my life. All three of us benefit from each other in some way, every day. Life wouldn't be the same for any of...

It's a wonderful story, LNW. Sounds like you did it right. I have been so amazed at the thoughtfulness my wife has shown for my OSO and me. I know it hasn't been easy for her, after 27 years of having me to herself, but I love her all the more for it. All the feelings you had, she had tenfold...