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Freetime, I had a lot of it on my hands.

If you're going to get involved with someone, make sure they practice tantra. Wow. Who knew? Love my life. Free time. All the time. Every time.

To a car sales man, I'm picking up my wife in the morning and giving my girlfriend and her husband a lift in the evening. Can we reschedule?

Hi RP! I hope you had a good night. Rain and her husband spent the night here. We had a great discussion, fun frivolity, and more discussion until the sun came up. A great way to bring in 2012. Interesting place to be right now. My marriage is over. My first attempts at poly didn't work out...

The power of veto is a myth. The idea creates the illusion of security to those new to poly such as myself, and the emotionally insecure. The core idea behind the veto when you striip the bullshit out from the discussion is mistrust. Good luck having a real poly relationship if one of the core...

Freer is now officially a word. Wow. What a year. There were those around me who weren't sure I was going to survive it. But I did. I thought I'd share with you what I've learned. No matter how it may look right now, the universe is looking out for you. Enjoy the journey. Love you all...

Life as a secondary Weird. I don't feel any less loved or appreciated. I'm happy. Today I'm grateful for that which I have, and that's good enough. I spent the day with a friend. She and I are very alike in many ways, and I was glad to be there for her. Feels good to be offering help and...

Eloquent and beautiful. Thank you. You, my dear NYCindie, truly have a way with words.

So I have a gf, I think. Gf seems trite. Too small to describe what is actually happening. Three weeks ago, I was on the verge of complete self-destruction. Partying all night, every night. Girls, clubs, booze, bar fights and... other things. Last week? The universe offered up the other side...

I've met someone very special. I'll refer to her as Rain. I attended (are you ready for this?) a cuddle party. Yes, I know. Martial arts, firearms and motorcycles don't exactly seem to fit the profile, but off I went. I truly do not know why, except that what I've been doing lately wasn't...

Now I know This entire year has never been about polyamory. What it has been about is letting go and acceptance. Along the way, I've met some of you in person, talked to others on the phone or communicated through PM and this board. Thank you. Thank you for caring about one tired and very...

Well, a man of two worlds. One that satisfies my need for adrenaline and excitement, the other that fills my need/desire for peace of mind and love. I'm going with the second alternative, at least for now. I've been at war within myself for so long I barely remember who or what kind of man I...

So the question was asked "If you're getting divorced, are you still poly/open?" And I realized that yes, yes I am. I may one day decide monogamy is for me, but it won't be anytime soon.

The details I'll keep to myself, but I rarely lacked company, partied like it was 2099, aaaaand, apparently wasn't as discreet as I thought I was. I may lose my job over the company I was keeping. But even if I don't lose this gig, it's a wake-up call. I'm starting to reach out to friends...

My life rocks/sucks. I'm back. So much has changed. Moving out Jan 1, divorce in progress, and more pain and happiness then I thought I could ever experience. The cruelty I've had to deal with from my wife is difficult to describe. Suffice to say, I get I mean nothing to her, and truthfully...

You're free, baby. I release you with love. Your life is yours again, without condition or responsibility to me anymore. I thank you for telling me the truth. That took courage. Although I've known for long time, it helped to have you say it. Over the past few years, I've felt the distance...

Yes, indeed. I think this is just a case of being way too tired, and overreacting. When Tess wakes up, I'll talk to her about this and slow the panic parade down a wee bit.

Weekend of fun and frolicking, followed by... The players: Freetime, husband of Tess, boyfriend of Tilly Tess, wife of Freetime, girlfriend of Mike Mike, boyfriend of Tess, husband of Tilly Tilly, wife of Mike, girlfriend of Freetime The weekend was amazing. Tilly and Mike spent the weekend...

Can't I take the express lane?

Male. heterosexual.