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    New poly couple going slowly,somewhat.

    B bombed her achievement test on purpose yesterday. We hope that she does better tomorrow on the iq test. It is a different format so that should help. She was bored and scared for some reason that the examiner would share her scores with other kids and they wouldn't want to play with her...
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    New poly couple going slowly,somewhat.

    RIP Bear Tonka R. 3-2-10/9-24-11. We love you and miss you, good boy. Bear is out of his pain now and waiting for me on the Rainbow Bridge. We are doing okay today knowing that he is better off not suffering. B promised to do her best on her testing. We will be meeting T and K on Oct 7th at...
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    New poly couple going slowly,somewhat.

    Well, Bear has end stage Lymphoma. :( We will be putting him down on Saturday unless he gets really bad before then. We have rescheduled our meet up with T and K as we just can't leave the kids on the same day that we lose our dog. B won't be doing lessons for awhile except for art and doing...
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    New poly couple going slowly,somewhat.

    Well, Bear is sicker again. He is autoimmune but we are waiting on the results of a lymph node biopsy that she be in tomorrow to determine if it's primary or secondary to lymphoma. We are crossing our fingers that it is just autoimmune because his prognosis goes from grim to fair with that. B...
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    New poly couple going slowly,somewhat.

    So far, T and I are still just messaging but it seems to be going well. My sister, N, is unsure how her triad is going as they want her to change a lot but aren't really willing to change at all. :( I hope she does what's best for her for once and not for them. All in all, we are doing great...
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    New poly couple going slowly,somewhat.

    Well, we have a new potential, we'll call him T. He contacted us and we have started the process of getting to know each other. He is also married and both he and his wife are poly and she has confirmed with me that she is aware and fine with his searching out partners. We shall see how it...
  7. J

    New poly couple going slowly,somewhat.

    Yes, I have been telling him but he just gets defensive and tells me that we have to help each other. During the day when he's gone doesn't count as far as my not getting help from him but when he's home, I have to help him. I am getting some help from my sister during the day Mon-Fri while I...
  8. J

    New poly couple going slowly,somewhat.

    B had a great first dance class. The weekend is going well but I am getting restless.I keep dreaming of a man that I have never met and the dreams are quite steamy. I guess it's just my poly side wanting to express itself? M has been annoying me lately as he is doing less and less with the kids...
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    New poly couple going slowly,somewhat.

    Well, Bear is doing better and I guess the humane society is going to try and help with a fundraiser for his bills. We have until Feb 16th to pay it off without interest. B's first week of school is going great. She was advanced to first grade for her core subjects of la/phonics and math. She is...
  10. J

    New poly couple going slowly,somewhat.

    Well, it was just from taking him off of the steroids too soon and abruptly. He's back on them and doing better again. We will be battling diarrhea for a few days but I can handle that. I just need to go back to the store again and get some more Gatorade and baby food sweet potato or plain...
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    New poly couple going slowly,somewhat.

    :( sorry that I have been silent but Bear is getting worse again. He goes back tom the vet tomorrow for blood work to check his rbc count and liver function, etc. I hope that they aren't worse than last time. I want them to be improved but I just don't know anymore. I don't want to lose him but...
  12. J

    New poly couple going slowly,somewhat.

    We figured out the food issue but, no, we don't qualify for aid at all. If everything hadn't kept breaking, we wouldn't have had any problems. Thanks about Bear. He's not 100%, yet but he's getting there.
  13. J

    New poly couple going slowly,somewhat.

    This has been gong on for months. Truck, truck, hot water heater, roof, truck, locksmith, truck, dog, truck etc.
  14. J

    New poly couple going slowly,somewhat.

    I mean literally no money. I have $12 in my bank acct until the 31st. M has an automatic savings transfer soon that I will then take and use for food. We've just had too much break lately plus the dog almost dying doesn't help. We will probably play Settlers and perhaps I will indulge his bdsm...
  15. J

    New poly couple going slowly,somewhat.

    Well, the kids had lots of fun at the splash park, Bear continues to improve and M has a potential better paying, closer job. Just maybe our 4 month bad luck streak is over. Our wedding anniversary is in 2 days and we cannot afford to do anything. :( I plan to make a nice dinner and then idk...
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    New poly couple going slowly,somewhat.

    Well, I misunderstood the vet yesterday, Bear had a toxic exposure. He had a yeast infection in his paws and so he was put on prednisone and Ketoconazole. Well, the Ketoconazole has to be crushed and put into a fat which is usually wet food but Bear wasn't really eating so we went with 2-4 tbs...
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    New poly couple going slowly,somewhat.

    Well, Bear made it through the night and seems to be continuously improving. His vet said that it is looking promising that it is only the autoimmune and not Lymphoma!! We should know more over the next couple of weeks or so. We have to get him out of the liver failure first. We have our fingers...
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    New poly couple going slowly,somewhat.

    Well, this has been a hellacious weekend. The dog either has end stage lymphoma, 1st stage lymphoma with immune-mediated hemolytic anemia or what we are crossing our fingers for, primary autoimmune hemolytic anemia. We won't know anything for several days. If he responds to the steroids and his...
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    Yes, you did, it is being held by Ohio Smart, you should be able to find info about it on their...

    Yes, you did, it is being held by Ohio Smart, you should be able to find info about it on their website. Which is, I believe, ohiosmart.org but do a search on Ohio smart to be sure.
  20. J

    Poly Women Respond

    Well, as I am new to allowing myself to try polyamory, and not having much luck (LOL), I would like to say that I am of the mindset that love is infinite, and that loving two or more people is normal and natural and good. I mean, there are some families with more than 12 children. Does that mean...
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