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I have flirted and he has flirted back but idk that it means anything. I am not saying that I would propose marriage or prmary status or children on a first date, lol, I just tend to think too far ahead. It is a flaw that I haven't been able to correct.

Oh, he wouldn't be that many years younger than me. I will only be 30 this year. I am not saying that it couldn't work out but that I am afraid to try as if he is interested and finds that he does want children later it would end and I would be hurt or hurt him and I try ot to do that if I can...

Well, I have no idea if he's open to poly or not. He hasn't given me any indication that he is remotely interested in me. I wouldn't know how to go about asking that question especially since he is my daughter's teacher. He probably just sees me as another parent to one of his students. That...

Well, today sucks, I have a migraine and the kids are in rare form today. Also, I find myself being attracted to a most inappropriate person that will remain in the unrealized affection file. :( For one, he's a little young although I don't know for sure my guess is he's 25 or 26 and that is far...

I try to live one day at a time. I know that you can never really know where things are going, but it can be frustrating. I guess with me I just like to know things are going somewhere as opposed to nowhere. That is probably my inexperience in polyamory speaking, though.

Well, M and are definitely moving towards being closer than ever during this search. He says that I am trying too hard and that I need to let it come naturally. Idk how that will work as it's hard to just go out and meet guys when you're married without them thinking that you are trying to...

That's good to hear, RC. One day at a time works best, I think, even though it can be frustrating to not know where things are going.

Well, you have come full circle. Let's see how it goes this time. I really hope that she means what she says and that you can be happy as you deserve. I think that if you can compromise with her having sex with Trent and whatnot, that she should be able to do the same with you talking to your...

Lol, we are both into the e-stim and other things I am just not up on all of the terminology and abbreviations. I am feeling down today, I got a positive response from one of the two potentials and sent off a reply email yesterday in the am and haven't heard back, yet. Oh well, one day at a...

Sorry if that was tmi, lol.

Well, I just looked it up, lol. He is into some of that but not the hard core with weights and stuff he just likes a little light slapping so that wouldn't cause an issue.

Hmm since I have no idea what cbt is I am going with no, lol. He is into eroticelectrostimulation (e-stim) which I have heard can open the ends back up and then they can grow back together. He thinks I'm wrong though.

Well, I guess they both decided not to pursue anything as I haven't heard back from them. I guess that they could have gotten busy. I will give it a few days and see. D deleted me from his messenger finally. I blocked him but it wouldn't let me delete him. I wish him happiness in his life. We...

Well, we have 2 potentials now, we shall see which one, if any, move forward. We took N to the airport this am for her 2 week trip to see her sweeties so that they can see how the dynamic works with the three of them and the kids in the house together. She will be back on the 17th until...

Mental note, do not post when tired. I used first names instead of initials, lol. Oh well, if someone that I know sees this on this site, they are on here for a reason and shouldn't judge.

Well, so far, M has kept the pinkeye to himself. Let's hope that he keeps it that way. B had a great reading class yesterday. Her teacher confirmed to us that she is ready for transition to chapter level books and could probably read some chapter books as well. She doesn't like chapter books...

I hope that this helps her to see how wonderful you are. I wish you luck while you guys sort through things and that you are both happy in the end as well as the kids. We have a new potential so we shall see what happens over the next couple of days. [Staying tuned]

Well, we had a pretty good weekend. Had fun swimming, got Brenna's computer out and set up. The dog is getting better but , Mike now has pinkeye. We had a good meeting last night but when we got home, he looked in the mirror and realized that his eye was goopy and red so he booked it to the...

*hugs* I know that words and internet hugs aren't going to help, but I wish you happiness at the end of this, once you have had time to grieve.

I think that he will drop her as well. My cousin's husband had a 20 yr affair and as soon as he left her for the other woman, that woman dumped him.