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Great job Olivier. Thanks! Barry

After reading over the excellent posts by others in this thread I realized that the topical areas are ones that we would naturally gravitate toward. They are all important, incest, underage sex, prostitution, even infidelity. And each one of these topics, if viewed both culturally, and...

I'd like to tag onto what XYZ123 said in reply. I also believe in soul mates within a variety of different types of relationships. My daughter is a soul mate. And there are "soul mates" as far back as the eighth grade that are physically no longer in my life, but I think of them often, and at...

Isn't that the way of friends? One of the things I value most is having the freedom to speak my mind, especially with things that come from deep places. And afterwards I am able to reconsider and evaluate and come to a better understanding. So much of that depends on the people that I am with...

Hi Rarechild, My daughter is an ENFJ, and without a doubt my best friend. We tend to shift in the percentages of each letter designation as we move through life, but I have remained an INFJ. The first opportunity I had to take the Myers-Briggs I was a young counselor and so high on the...

I think it is possible. How they arrive at that would be what intrigues me. The way I think of the definition of polyamory is relationships that are intimate, both physically and emotionally. Those two elements might exist in swinging relationships, but I suspect that they are few and far...

Therein lies the importance of me being in a closed triad or quad. Love that bacteria. :p Barry

You guys sure aren't afraid to ask the big questions. :-) There has to be specific factors involved in desiring a poly life style. If there wasn't we would not be such a unique minority. But what those factors are eludes me. I can identify with being adventurous, curious and for sure a bit...

Hi Mono, You are so right. Poly people are more connected. The content of this thread supports that. Why is that? :-) Whatever the reason, I'm glad I'm here.

Being Alone YGirl, That makes perfect sense to me. But.......even if it didn't, it's your question, and you need to find the answer. Unanswered questions have a way of popping up over and over and over. They never seem to go away until we face them. Kinda like the process I am going through...

Being Alone I only wish it was that easy. But, this piece does make it easier. I can't remember which Jim Carey movie it was that he physically beat himself up. I think it was either Liar Liar or Pet Detective. I think it's a good depiction of what it looks like when we fight our natural born...

Prefer to be alone I would venture to say you are neither autistic or have Asperger's syndrome. I have a lot to say about this topic but for the sake of bandwidth and respect for others I am going to "try" and give you enough information that will enable you to discover that you are you, and...

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I am fortunate that I have found this website. I'm 59 and soon to be 60. I am still blessed with my health and strength and for the first time a sense of clarity about the type of relationships that I want. I was married for 20 years to a good woman, but felt as though I was suffocating. It was...