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This is exactly my thought process when I wonder if it's too soon. I did end up telling him. When I thought I was going to lose the chance to ever do it. Hubby had hit his lowest point thus far, and I couldn't do it to him anymore (we've since reestablished our boundaries and are starting...

Oh no, I'd much rather have J in our life and family. When I said said I was both comfortable and struggling with going back to the basics, I was referring to the kissing and snuggling. I really enjoyed those times, even if there was nothing else involved. I felt like that was good bonding...

I have 6 tats, though two of them I consider one. A butterfly and flower on my right ankle, sunflowers on my left foot, a dragon on my lower back with symbols for balance next to it, tribal turtle on the back of my neck, and my most recent piece is a koi that takes up most of my right thigh...

You are absolutely 100% correct. Patience is NOT one of my virtues. I'm not sure J has ever been on the same page. I think a lot of the problem has been the way that this all happened to start and the speed of which it started. I don't know that any of us ever realized the amount of...

I haven't posted in a bit.. a lot has been going on. It's been bad.. good.. bad.. back and forth. I don't know if I have the emotional energy to explain it all right now, but to sum it up. Hubby essentially hit a brick wall, and I couldn't do this to him anymore, so called it off with J for...

THIS! I love you babe :)

Oh girl, If I took up another hobby I would be in BIG trouble!! lol Amazingly, and out of the blue had an awesome middle of the night conversation with J. I woke up at 2AM to a text from him that said he probably would need to come another night due to some roommate drama that has him out...

Still here, and still have not had sex with J. It's been both frustrating, and good.. I've felt like we've had some good connections the past week and a half, and some good progress. He seems to be making somewhat of a conscious effort in giving us more time with him. Both one on one with me...

I will take your advice to heart and wait... it's so hard for me! I definitely don't want to complicate things, especially when they are going so well right now. :) Thank you :)

To say I love you? I admittedly wear my heart on my sleeve. I fall in love easily, and granted that it often morphs into different types of love/relationships, it never really goes away. With the exception of one person, I still very much love (and am good friends, best with a couple even)...

Yes, I can see how in the grand scheme of things it's not really a whole lot different. I do feel that it's the best way for hubby to be able to be okay with it because of his nature to over think. Things are still going well. Hubby and J shared some messages where J said that he's really...

Another good, yet interesting couple of days. RP, while I do take your advice to heart, I also feel our situation is slightly different (as they all are). J has been a part of our lives for nearly 3 years, and going on 2 months of our journey, which I realize is short in the big picture...

I call mine Raw UNCook Books :) I love the raw vegan lifestyle! Unfortunately I struggle with it due to preparation time, and the fact that I'm really the only one that eats that way in my household. I do have lots of recipes if anybody is interested though!!

For me, I don't think moving on is an option. I feel strongly that I am poly, and as hard as it would be for me to go back to suppressing that part of me, my marriage is infinitely more important. We have something that very few people have together, and I know I'm asking a lot of him. We've...

RP, I feel like in a lot of the ways we are similar in how we work. I just want to give you a big huge internet ((HUG)). Mono, too. :) Both of your posts are always so insightful and I relate very well to both aspects. I hope that eventually our dynamic can get close to what you have. But for...

I felt our conversation last night was good. The only thing I'm concerned about is putting a time limit on it. Saying "well, lets give it one month, and if I don't feel better about it, it's off". I'm willing to work with that, I think it's fair that he is giving it more time, but I'm also...

Thank you everyone, for your responses. Last night did not go anything like I thought it would, in fact, quite the opposite. I'm feeling numb and even more confused. The guys got out of work late, after midnight, and J who is admittedly less than punctual was even later by the time he...

I almost always use JenzZx2 for everything. I'm an auto enthusiast and that was my first car that I started modifying, and it also is what brought my husband and I together! However, I was slightly concerned about how it would come up in searches (not that many people search for me, haha)...

Marilyn

I'm so exhausted. I feel like it's back and forth all of the time. Just when I think hubby is okay, he tells me he's on the verge of calling the whole thing off. I go from being fairly content and working on figuring out my own emotions, to being terrified about it coming to a stop but at the...