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We're not telling our families, we hardly tell them anything anyway. They're bigoted, hurtful, manipulative and have lost their right to be any major part of our lives. In our circle of vegan friends (who are our closest & most trusted friends too) the fact that we're...

I sometimes use my partner's beard trimmer if I can be bothered, but most of the time I let it grow wild and free. :D

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The peacock feather reminds me that I can be beautiful sometimes :o, and to feel proud of myself, the purple flowers are Alliums which along with the blue fern leaves are favourite plants of mine. The swallows on my back represent freedom (flight), my love of swallow/martins/swifts as such...

My ink: My most recent - the wrist tattoos - was my most painful & meaningful. It means my heart is open and I have the key :)

Well I'm 26, so some way to go :D I'm not hugely bothered whether I do or not, I'm just intrigued. I'm going to try this over the next few weeks and see what I discover. Such tough research :D

I'm somewhat intrigued by female ejaculation. I've been masturbating & orgasming since I was 13; I come very easily and can come from PIV without simultaneous clitoral stimulation; I play with a g spot & clitoral vibe that always bring me to orgasm; I can find my g spot with my eyes closed...

It does get easier. My personal space boundary used to be about 3 miles across, but I'm getting better. I've really worked on making this smaller and being more physical (not with everyone, I'm happy with a generous personal space boundary for everyone except a trusted few) with my partner...

You are just like me. I'm really crap at showing how I feel (and saying it too, sometimes :o ) and I have to remember that my partner gets so much from a hug and a kiss. I'm not really adding any advice, just that I'm the same. I think describing it as thanking him in his own 'language' is a...

I can fancy someone for what they look like, in a sort of "ohh they're nice" kind of way, but I know it's a superficial crush. They're just eye candy. I am attracted to big sexy brains :D If someone is smart, can make me laugh and is kind, they've pretty much got me :o

+1 to all the awesome comments ^ I'd like to add...you don't hate these women because of who they are, you hate them because of who you are.

You're making a lot of generalisations here. I think it's sad that you find pussy gross when you have one yourself. Secondly the aspects of being female you dislike are social constructs - woman are trained to be interested in makeup, fashion & babies and to be vulnerable. We are not all like...

^I second that! I can barely be arsed to shave my legs most of the time, let alone wax my pubes. At most I trim them using partner's beard trimmer, but generally I let it grow wild and free :D

Tell me about it! My male partner is trying to find a playmate and it's really tough. He messages people just to say hi, to try and get a conversation going, and 90% of the time gets no reply. Despite women's profiles saying "Hey, send me a message and we can chat", they don't seem to want to...

IMO, you're not in a poly relationship. Your husband is simply having his affair in your home rather than playing away. As a couple, the two of you should have negotiated who wanted what, and how each of you, and/or another partner, would provide that. Polyamorous relationships are negotiated...

I'm on OKC, mostly for vague browing (I like to spy :D) and just in case any unicorns come up. I also search for prospective playmates for the partner. My username is the same.

This is just my opinion, but you've been screwed over here. It doesn't seem that at any point have your feelings been acknowledged and no negotiation has occurred. To me, this isn't so much a poly relationship as you supporting 3 kids: your wife, her lover & your child. If I were you I'd kick...

Rabbit, TP, Derby, I am so happy to hear other bi/pansexuals echoing my feelings. It seems that being bi is often viewed as 'in denial' or 'not gay enough' for the gay community, and a fair amount of the straight community think you only exist to make out with another woman in front of them or...

We haven't yet decided whether we'll be 'out' or not. If we do decide to be out, our families will not be told. In fact, only a small circle of our friends will know. I am not intending to let work colleagues know, even if I am close to them. I'm a very private person anyway, but I view my...

I'd say women have had to be adaptable as in a patriarchal, Western capitalist societies we haven't had a choice! Leaving the family was not often a choice (we were sold off as property in marriage by our fathers) we lost our family names due to this, being housewives/working for the war...