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Perhaps not, but being able to make meaningful connections with multiple people is universal, I would think. Taking that to actually wanting what you have created would potentially be limited by cultural influences. I.e., in some cultures it would almost be impossible to have the desire develop...

I know with 100% confidence that not all men or women subscribe to gender roles. In my experience, it's the minority... thank goodness! Redpepper, I agree with you that it's up to the individuals to find their own path as they go along. The problems in my marriage actually were not at all...

Sounds like a case of serendipitous wonderfulness!!

Yes, I understand. I don't want to be there either! I guess that's why I try to avoid having too much of a script or expectation of what future relationships may look like. That may be a little too much pressure for future partners. I think it's good mental exercise to have your mind imagine...

I consider myself a solo poly person. I also left a long-term marriage. I really feel like focusing the next few years on building my life and my interests. I don't want to cohabit with anyone. I really like and value my alone time and space. I've got one child at home. Obviously, I want loads...

Slightly off the main topic, but - I'd suggest paying attention to that grief you mentioned - It sounds very fresh...and you have also mentioned there's alot of issues around it. Sometimes it is difficult to seperate what emotions lie with what issue, But grief is a massive emotion - tidal...and...

Best regards :) Hi all...I must declare upfront I've gained much from having a quick read of the odd topic here. So I've felt I should say hello and contribute. I've probably always sat close to polyamory. Although was not overly familiar with that word until recently. In my past I've had...