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How experianced is he with other men? I ask this because in my opinion it may take a while to overcome stigmas and personal reservations about your attraction to men. It may be easier to say your not attracted for anything other than sex, but through sex you may findm someone who you are...

I think one of the hardest things to do in a poly relationship is to reprogram yourself to thing about others feelings first and yours second. It is human nature to think and protect yourself and your own needs first at the expense of the others in your poly family, but to be sucessful I beleive...

We watched it. It was a good overview, as good as could have been done in an hour show I think. Very little time spent on the private sexual aspect of it and much more on the development of new relationships and the different configurations and really in family. One part showed a 16 year old...

An update, Well it has been a month since the last update and we are all doing well. It is so different this time around. We actually all have become more of a family with all our kids being the focus most of the time. We spend some time together the tree of us sexually and each of us spend...

I may not be the best at answering this, but can only say from own experience that a triad does not really work unless all three have a clear understanding and agreement about what everyone wants and expects. Also, in our experience, there must be a desire for the three of you to spend as much...

I am a suit-wearing professional who wears torn jeans and fashionable clothing away from the office. H is a SAHM, and my bookkeeper, so you can catch her in anything from jeans and high heels, to workout clothes, to a dress. K is in the medical profession, so you can see her in scrubs, or jeans...

Quick update. H and k spent the day together Saturday working on thier relationship. That turned into the three of us spending the entire weekend together in the most natural feeling relaxing situation. It seems that we maybe on the right track. I think all of this was so new to all of us that...

A quick update. H and K had a heart to heart last week, and I guess we broke up, however after some reflection they are working on the friendship the two of the had that started some of this. Both are taking some personal time to read and study about their own adventure into poly and their bi...

Again thank you all for your advice. I have passed this all along to H and K. your advice is respected in light of your own experiances. I have even considered group counseling for the three of us. We are back home, and brought K back some gifts, both H and I had independantly purchesed one...

The four girls our 2 and k's 2 are great. Our 17 yo knows all about the relationship he and I were strained during the separation, but since H and I have gotten back together we have rebuilt our relationship. He speaks to k when he sees her. As far as the violence that has all ended since H...

First let me start by saying I'm writing this at 4:45 in the morning laying in a hotel bed with H my primary partner and wife of 17 years. One year ago we were here getting ready to leave on a cruise with our best friends a couple G and K. What was not out in the open is that K and I had...

Three tats. Arkansas razorback on my shoulder blade for the law school I graduated from, a circle of barbed wire at my belt line (our first triad we called ourselves the circle others called us toxic so we combined that into this tat and all trhee got the same at the same spot and a celtic triad...

We are in El Dorado a profesional poly couple. Love to talk sometime.

Where do you live? I am interested because I am attorney. You do need a good lawyer. Most will be scared more than likely because of not understanding poly. You should research laws concerning same sex relationships and the rulings of the appeals courts in your state. Or any other non...