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We would both like to talk to a psychologist. Me somewhat, but she really wants to. She says her brain and heart are getting squished :( and she has no one to talk to and that she usually talks to her mom but her mom just got out of serious surgery and she doesn't want to upset her. :confused...

Right yeah, I didn't even understand that. But it was great that anyone sensed my confusion and helped define that for me because that came up last night and assured us that I am DEFINITELY Poly. I kept telling her that I wanted to be with other women, but it wasn't about sex. And now I...

UPDATE: It's like we broke up, but we're back together. So I'm not sure where this is going, but I told her to go, I let her go, and yet at the moment we are still together because we love each other. I'm talking about how I want to lead my life, and right now we are still within the love we...

And that is how I lead my life Ciel. A person may not be in the same place as you in the moment you are talking with them, but it's important to have compassion and not to define them by the way they are in that moment. A person is capable of maturing, changing, forgiveness, and so many things...

Yes. I think I understand what it feels like to be so "different", such a social paradigm, to have a latent lifestyle change within be discovered and come out, a lifestyle change that society rejects, and I do think that because my situation is on an island in the Caribbean paradise it made it...

Haven't read these last 3 responses. Typing from my phone slowly. I just did the breakup talk. This sh** has been real for the last 2 hours. I'll post more soon.

Yeah I know about metacommunication in real conversations, body language, context, etc. But how to do that in writing? Sounds like you are talking about "framing" but I'm not sure how to do that as a craft. I'd be curious to find an appropriate link teaching the skill of metacommunicating in...

Like I said, I should have said "pussy block" but it wouldn't have worked out of context, it just sounded better to use the proverbial phrase "cock block". It didn't need to be a big huge negative thing. It was to illustrate that she was preventing something that I wanted. I'll explain below...

Hahaha that was hilarious. Even if it's at my expense, that was really f-ing funny! lol Love it

In the spirit of continuing to expose my own character in this process, I would like to share another thought that has occured to me today as feelings of poly wane back and forth from being interesting to me, to, not being all into it at certain moments... and that is that when there is not the...

Yeah I used to be hardlined for the Death Penalty and for the right for a woman to have Abortion. Since than I have become against the Death Penalty, and although I believe in a woman's right, I personally am against abortion because I have delivered my own baby and I just don't believe that...

Alright. But I mean I haven't necessarily met and discussed the other's needs and I'm open to their needs. I don't want to project any of my own expectations on them, I think that would be unfair. I'm only able to talk about what I need, want, desire, and I can talk about what I expect, but I'm...

Yeah I'm really sorry about that. Really. I'm sure it's 50% due to me just being really clunky when trying to correctly communicate in a new place. And it's 50% that I am a little arrogant, naive, and all the things you guys called me. That's ok. I don't mind hearing the truth, so long as it is...

OMG, you are antagonistic. You did not need to comment on the post that was meant for me with a comment that bullies me. It is unnecessary. I don't care personally. I'm just telling you flat out, you were bullying and you're lucky I am not a person with lower self esteem or I would feel really...

It's really not necessary to bully. This was between the two of us.

Thanks, I appreciate your post. You are 100% right. About them becoming prostitutes, I'm not interested in that at all. I don't want to get anything from them unless they are interested in me as a person. I'm just saying I'm able to give them a really great ride with my support. No job unless...

I didn't expect more from you.

For sure. I agree with you. And in my case, yes I did set forth plenty of rules, and they were respectful honorable rules, and yes in time we had to readjust those rules, but everything made logical sense. Right now it's so difficult because we are needing to adjust but what I want is based on...

I see you take no responsibility for scolding me, and you excuse the actions of your friends. I'm not interested in changing your core beliefs so that you can approach this differently and have compassion for the things that others did to me in here. It's not necessary for me. I know where you...

Yeah I agree with you. Talking about this has really shed some light on everything. For one thing, it almost seems like the people I want to come into my circle aren't to be Poly minded people. If they were they wouldn't want what I'm setting up. So that's a little bit of a reality check right...