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  1. StumblingAlong

    Need A Poly POV

    He sounds like he is having a lot of feelings that are leaving him confused about what he is feeling and himself.
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    On the lighterside...The 'Things I never thought I would say...'

    Picking up kids from school one day. Teacher: How are you related to child 1? Me: akward silence Child 2: She's my mom. Child 1: He's my brother Me: you could say we are pretty close. Teacher: oh, like sisters? Child 1: No, they aren't sisters. She lives with us. Child 2: yea, he's my...
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    When does polyamory get the blame?

    Can I get a link to Carna's story/post? I don't post much in the way of my story because its rather long and quite complicated and I'm not sure where to start with it.
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    Children and Polyamory: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Check lovemore.com it gives a little information on this. Yes, it's possible the child can be taken just because of your relationship. Poly is not easily understood by many, and those are the ones that consider it immoral, and unfortunately, in the US, 99.9% of the judicial system is made of...
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    Problem people

    Wish I had that to read years ago. would have saved a lot of heartache. Good read, great information.
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    When does polyamory get the blame?

    In my personal experience if there had not been an affair in our mono relationship we never would have stepped over into poly. Our problem was 1) we were not ready for it (poly) as a couple 2) we always had communication issues 3) because of said affair there were trust issues 4) after stepping...
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    Talking to parents about the polyamory lifestyle

    Amazingly our parents that know of our triad are accepting of it for the most part. Siblings that know are all very accepting as well are our adult nieces qnd nephews that know. Most figured it out on their own and then ask what was goung on for confirmation that they were right. Those family...
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    In one paragraph or less, what have you learned that's of great significance?

    Honesty is always best or you will have problems. Don't communicate just for the sake of communicating. You have to listen in communication just as much as you talk if not more. Never give up on what you want or the ones you love because if you give up you will never know what could have been...
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    Compersion: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Yes, its real. I feel it often, but I also have my moments of jealousy. My jealousy like others have said comes through when there is something else going on. I have to take some time and exam it and figure it out and then take steps to correct what is causing it. Thankfully for me compersion...
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    I talked to my wife tonight

    When the time is right do what I did for my girlfriend. Show her this site so she sees she is not alone in her feelings. I had been trying to figure out how and when to introduce my girlfriend to the site. Finally things came to a head and we were discussing how she had been feeling. I pulled up...
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