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Right now, we are all confused and emotional and unsure of what is going to happen.

I can agree I am a caretaker. It's how I have always been. I know where it comes from and it's a very deep seeded part of me. It comes from growing up way to fast at a very young age and having to be that at an age where I should have been a child. We did have therapy and thought we had worked...

Don't know what we are or are doing. We have been talking and may manage to work through the issues. I don't know. Guess we will see.

I guess whether or not I want to be in a triad or if it's actually a vee doesn't matter any more. It seems it's all over. I hope I'm wrong, but I don't think I am. Where I am right now is best described as shock. I don't know what emotions I am feeling. I don't think it's fully hit me yet. I...

"Doing a triad is the hardest way to do poly, did you know that?" -yes, I knew and expected it to be hard. When this started it was not a triad it was 3 people looking to have fun and become better friends. It did become a triad and then it began to bounce from a triad to a vee and back. When...

So completely over work right now. All of us are under stress especially V and it's taking its toll. Fortunately we have something to look forward to in spending time together this weekend and getting back to basics of just enjoying being together. Love when in the stressful moments we find...

Not sure what happened or changed but today has been so much more like it was a couple weeks ago. Today has been relaxed, playful, flirty. So far today has been good.

It is right now. But honestly I wouldn't trade either of them for anything in the world. It just got a little nuts when emotions began to happen.

Facebook problems but can't unfriend or blick without causing an issue equals going to the restricted section. I have people I do this to that I'm friends with on Facebook if they start driving me crazy. I will unfollow them so I don't see their annoying posts pop up in my feeds then I restrict...

I don't know what's happening in this any more. Maybe I never did.

Yes she and I talked about it and I reassure her of this, but I'm not who she needs it from. She needs it from V and right now he is giving mixed messages to boh of us about where he is in this.it's very frustrating but trying to talk to him makes him feel like he is being pushed 1 direction or...

It does make some sense. Right now Tabs feels V is off limits to her as more than just an FB. She has realized she needs us both and I'm guessing due to typical mono(non poly friendly) standards that she has always believed V is off limits to her emotionally and to date. Add to it that V doesn't...

Yes, but I think external stressors are part of why it doesn't seem to be lasting as long as it usually would. Plus I think Tabs and V trying to figure out their relationship with each other and it's affecting us all as well. I realized today how much I feed off of their moods. It kind of struck...

Comments always welcome... Well hell.... this is not nearly as easy or fun right now. Everyone is kind of in this weird space of their own and it's just not making anything easy. I don't know where Tabs is on things right now. I know where I am and I still want the same thing I have been...

When what you want is for the people you love to see that there is so much more to you than what you show them and for them to want to know things you keep to yourself. We all have thoughts, dreams, fears, etc... some of us keep part of those tucked away for ourselves and for those that want...

This person is not poly. This incident made me become a little leary of them.

Others opinions of what an open marriage should look like to be considered "right", piss me off when they openly say the way Victor and I do it is wrong. Victor was recently told by someone that our marriage is not really open if I'm aware of what he does, who he is with, and where he goes. That...

We don't do this much but when I ask Victor about an outfit for anything he gives a generic comment saying he's not going to be blamed if I later think differently from him. Spent the day with Tabs recently and ask if he thought wjat I had on looked ok. His response, "Wear what you want. I'm not...

I am so so so fortunate to be surrounded by awesome and amazing people in my life. Everyone that knows or learns about our relationship has been accepting of it and my girlfriend, even if they don't understand. So happy to be surrounded by such great people. Wish everyone had the awesome group...

Love when I can openly talk to my partners about the part of me that loves and enjoys being with my girlfriend and the part of me that loves and enjoys being with my husband and how those 2 things though separate are intertwined and can't be fully separated. For me, while I'm ok with only having...