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Kat and MG, I'm sorry if I passed judgement too quickly. It is so easy to do being not only a Mono Wife myself but one that has been cheated on and betrayed and coming off some horribly rifts in her own marriage where there were indeed women who were homewreckers and tried to get him to leave...

I love your analogies, Mono. You are an inspiration. Thank you so much for your upbeat attitude. I don't usually post on yours, but I love reading it.

Mulling things over As I lay here, reading back over old posts I go find myself thinking about the beginning here. Maybe it is because tonight they are reuniting and I know how great they feel to be together again. I am finding myself reminicsing about how this all started. And as I think of...

I support this idea. I know J and I try to do nice things for each other. But there is still the insecurities I feel being the mono in my relationship that got caught in a polyamorous marriage I never intended to have when I got married. For Mono, does this always work for you? Do you or Nerdist...

Kat, I am sure MorningGlory will read this so I am sorry for her but I have to be honest coming from the same seat. I know J would love to believe that dh loves her more because she loves him more than her own husband. But she has never said that he does nor will she ever do so becasue she knows...

J's husband lifted the break time he asked of DH and J last night. He talked with her and they got through alot of issues. This has been a hard two weeks for everyone. I have had to hold my husband and comfort about the possibility of loosing a woman he loves who isn't me. And it has hurt...

Your situation in reverse I am living through your situation only in reverse. I am the wife but also the mono hear. If you read my blog on LifeStories and blogs it is called The Blog of the Mono Wife that is fine. That way everyone else doesn't have to hear me retell it yet again. But you do...

So Much Cheating and Dishonesty I don't understand cheating. I don't understand how someone brings themselves to that point. I'm sorry for anyone I might offend. I feel like I have read so many posts lately about those who have cheated. If you really love your wife or husband as much as you say...

Little Frustrated Just a little frustrated tonight. We were hanging out with my sister and her boyfriend tonight. My sister was inside taking care of her baby. So the three of us were outside. Now her boyfriend is a pot smoking, constant cheating creep that I already don't like. It is a shock...

KT, I teared up at your story. But you also know how much I sympathize for you. I often feel the same. And it is the times that we fall off of what our agreements are that make us remember to keep each other in the loop so there can be less pain than there already is.

So the weekend was not a fun one. My husband and I hit a rough patch with honesty and communication. He had a hard time not lying to me. I had a hard time not sneaking around behind his back to learn the truth. So this resulted in two days of fighting and lots of hurt feelings. By the end of it...

Intimidated So husband and J have this whole dom/sub thing with their relationship. It is a big thrill for the both of them. I had asked him awhile ago that I would like him to give me some of this excitement to me as well. I felt like I got the boring sex and time and she got the fun nights...

The husband is coming around So good news on the part with the J's husband. They had a good long talk last night. And she text me to let me know that he simply asked for some time with her. He doesn't want her to end her relationship with my husband, he just needs a small break so that he can...

Mono, You are an inspiration to monos everywhere. I hope to someday be this blissful with my own situation. I know it will take some time, especially being the wife in all of this, but I am working toward that goal.

GF's Husband is Hurting I just posted this in the New to Polyamory area but since this is my blog I am going to put it here as well so I can keep everything together. So for a mono this should probably be a dream come true but I just see the pain it is causing my husband. J's husband, who...

So for a mono this should probably be a dream come true but I just see the pain it is causing my husband. J's husband, who oddly enough is also poly, swinger actually is more his title although he has fallen in lover with women outside his marriage. They just had to move so he and her are no...

The day after So last night husband was with J. When he got home I gave him his "gush time" that was suggested to me. He talked about some of the things they did together. He talked about some of their topics of discussion. He went over how he felt about her and in comparison to me, of course...

I am reentering my story here and using this thread as my own little blog. Please feel free to comment. I just thought this would be a good place to let stuff out. This all started when I found out my husband had fallen in love and cheated with a coworker. It was a terrible time but instead of...

Good Point Schrodingers, This would be a good place to hang out and share my experiences with all of this. Never really thought about it. I have been practically living in the New to Poly part because I am so unsure about the rest of the site. I feel so unexperienced and new to all of this that...

I think we really need some good blog areas on this site. Husband is with J tonight while I am here at home. Normally I find a way to keep busy so I don't dwell. Most of you know my story by now. For those that don't here is a quick run through... This all started when I found out my husband had...