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KT, I wish I could just give you a big hug. Things are looking positive for me finally right now and yet things have gone downhill for you again. I don't know what to say for you. I just wanted to lend you my support. J has kept within our agreements and I am greatful for that. She and husband...

My husbands GF is aware that we won't be coming out. She and her husband haven't either and don't intend to. Its a personal choice different polys have to make. We have decided to keep this within our relationships because of the harsh judgements and that it is no one elses business so we don't...

I do agree with this here to an extent. If her husband doesn't know then this needs to stop. This is not a poly relationship they have. This is a dishonest cheating one. It takes everyone knowing, agreeing, and working together to make a poly relationship. Not just some people but all. And they...

thanks LR. yes, I can agree with that. It needs to be left up to KT's comfort level and until KT is comfy, if she ever is the GF does need to back off a little.

A Really Hard Weekend I just wanted to get out that I have also had some hard feeling this past weekend and I am not sure why. This past week has been an emotional rollercoaster. Husband and J were suppose to have some time together back on Tuesday. But then J's husband got called off of work...

Putting in my opinion for KT KT First off let me say that I am so proud of you for taking the time to get to know the GF better. I know it is hard. Once again I see things on your posts that I say myself. I can talk to her and spend time with her but I don't feel comfortable either telling her...

Husband had his arms around both J and myself. We were both cuddled up next to him and he didn't only kiss on her. We were trying to have an evening of closeness with the three of us so I could come to be more comfortable with the situation. She even leans over and rubs my back and shoulder and...

Made it through another test So, husband had J over last night so the three of us could have some time together. I had my moments of jealousy and uncertainty. She was very clingy on him. They had had a bad day at work and were kind of leaning on each other. I was already having an off day...

Harder days For you veterans out there, Does it make sense to have days where there really isn't a trigger. It is just a normal day. But you just can't seem to get it together. If my husband were not at work he would put his arms around me and we would just lay in bed watching king of the hill...

I think one of the things that got to me the most in the beginning is that they do stuff now that my husband and I use to do but kind of fell out of practice. I use to play around and call him "sir" and things like that. But he said he didn't like that so I stopped. I use to wear cute thongs and...

KT, Thank you so much. I want to extend the same to you. My email is [email protected] I am also on facebook and MSN instant messenger. I am here if you need me.

We started talking a little before I found out they were in love. We had many one on one chats by msn and texts. Two of our threesomes haappened before I knew the truth to it all. That really hurt. They had broken a very important rule about leaving me out. But the week I found I shut her out of...

I deal with it with constant talking and communication. Did he ask you if it was ok and if you were ready for this step of him leaving for an entire weekend? That seems to me like it is a bit rushed to be gone for so long. This site has also been a huge help.

I have that problem as well. I know I feel inferior to her in bed. She has the excitement of being more experienced that me and poly herself so she can bring some things to sex that I can't. My husband is at least honest enough to say that it isn't that she is better but that we both have our...

I am the mono in my relationship. And we are very new to this. We began actively opening our relationhip about two months ago. I know that seeing it from a mono point of view this is very very hard for me. It is taking alot of time of talking and reassuring. I am constantly thinking I am not...

The cheating happened over a course of about three years. One of them was with a girl that I had deep hating feelings towards and did indeed try to talk him into leaving me. Even dared to say that she would make a better mother for my daughter as she chased him. It didn't take long for that to...

KT, I don't know how I was fortunate enough to come across you but I am glad I have. It is like reading a biography right now. My husband has always been a flirtatious one. And apparently he has cheated on me in the past without me knowing. These were all one night stands. I found out about his...

Like Reading about myself. KT, where do I even begin. This is like reading about my own issues Right now.the only difference I am a mono married to a poly and I am included in threesomes every once in awhile that have gone well. But I feel for you with the jealousy and your ups and downs. These...

How? I guess being new to this whole thing, and it happening through my husband cheating, and us coming to terms that this is the next step in our marriage, I am not sure how to avoid comparing myself to his girlfriend. I had threesomes with her and him before they messed up and broke the...

Thank you all for all your support. I did manage to survive their first encounter the other night. I curled up to watch the Olympics with some popcorn I admittedly never ate. I played on Facebook a little bit. I finally forced myself to go to sleep for a bit. Before he left that night he was...