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  1. catbird

    Am I polyamorous?

    redpepper, you don't know what that means to me and my wife that you're thanking her for what she and so many did for women. And we can proudly say that the movement has been successful, too! It was only a few decades ago that most women were homemakers, including a great many that wanted to do...
  2. catbird

    Am I polyamorous?

    redpepper redpepper, you have been a very nice person. Yes, a mistress is what I'm looking for! Aren't you guys at this site telling me that's a bad idea? No, I knew you were making a joke. :) I love a woman with a smile or grin that won't quit, and hope very much that you're female. :p Yes...
  3. catbird

    Am I polyamorous?

    Thank you pyxiegrl, and to all who are trying to respond to me. You have all been very kind and tolerant, and I'm sincerely grateful. I know my wife, and am trying to be as generous about her as I can, but I've been upfront with her before, to no effect. Now recently she has suspected that I'm...
  4. catbird

    Am I polyamorous?

    I'm not completely certain what polyamorous is. If it means sleeping with a man and a woman at the same time, that isn't for me. I think I'm capable of loving more than one woman at the same time. I also think most humans are naturally the same way, that is, can love many of the opposite sex. I...
  5. catbird

    Why do you use the online name that you use?

    My tagname First, I like cats and have two. Also I like birds, and am intrigued by a fantasy of a cat that can fly. Catbirds are pretty. I love mockingbirds but that's too long. :cool:
  6. catbird

    What is polyamorous love?

    Romantic Love Seems like that to me. Each lover is unique. The love we make necessarily has to be unique too. Romance can't be defined, there is no universal.
  7. catbird

    Am I polyamorous?

    thanks Thank you redpepper and phoenix762. I have no idea if my wife would go poly, and as you say I don't think now would be the time to ask. Yes, I will browse here. Thinking about having more than one lover has been a lot to think about. Seems like in American society if a woman has more...
  8. catbird

    Am I polyamorous?

    I'm not sure at all I belong here. My situation is my wife doesn't relate to me the way I need. She has a tendency to shut me out with book reading. This has been going on for seventeen years now. I try to love her the way she likes. I don't know that she 'gets' love. It reaches a point where...
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