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Yes I am still confused about what you meant by this. Mainly the word "interfere" and whether you have a "right" to do it. Someone sharing details of their life with you and you interfering are completely different things in my mind.

Let's be clear, I didn't suggest you do any of these things. To make a long story short, if you have decided this relationship is nothing more than constantly painful experiences, you could leave. No, you can't. You already called it negative. That is a judgement. Now you've jumped to...

Jacob, I've felt for you, and was happy to see your update, so I'm going to try to ignore the poly-female-agenda stuff and suggest what I would say otherwise. I'd say a mistake you're making isn't whether letting her date others makes you a good guy or a wuss, but rather that you think you're...

What a lousy day I've already made one terrible decision this week so maybe now is not the best time but... I've come to realize I want a deeper emotional connection to someone than either of these men are willing/capable of/desiring to give to me at this time. I know I am unlikely to find it...

Sure she would! She's already risking everything by cheating.

More weddings Jasper brought up if I would like to go to his sister's wedding. The two of them are very close. I was pleased he invited me but got the sense he thought it would be better if I didn't come. He said that it wouldn't be the best use (for us) of our visit time and funds. Weddings...

Yeesh they sound lovely. Good thing you found out so quickly though.

More dreams Had an odd dream this weekend. I was in high school and was feeling very shy. During a class discussion someone randomly said something sexual about me and I responded with something like "That's great I don't think anyone has ever said anything like that about me before so I'll...

This week is making me wonder if this board IS made up entirely of accounts run by Franklin Veaux

Gee I wonder if that might be why shes feeling bad about it and finds herself thinking that the "answer" is to remove the option of him having sex with someone else. Its a terrible idea but you can see where she's coming from.

Obviously struck an irritating nerve rant In my opinion whether he followed the exact letter of what he said or what you said is a lame argument. You discussed some activity and rather than refrain, it sounds like he ran to do it immediately. He could have just said, "NO I don't agree to that...

Except that in this case her husband is jealous and angry at her for doing what does work for her. So to recap, This husband has no problem placing the burden of his orgasm on her, he isn't willing to provide any stimulation to her that isn't what he's already doing for himself, and he has a...

Now I'm really confused. Are you saying you want an open relationship because she won't let you out of this one? Tell her you're breaking up with her, start dating other people. If she starts fighting with you ignore her, or just keep texting that you two broke up and you're seeing other people...

I think it's fine too. I'm just not sure why he needs us to keep feeding him examples of women who love their new boyfriends more than their husbands, just so he can keep getting off on it. He clearly has no desire for the conversation to be about the topic of love being equal or not. Despite...

Bad news, pal. Your wife is always telling you how much she needs someone more, how much she needs a bigger cock, how much better he is. She lets you sit around when they are together, wallowing in how insignificant you appear to be. I'd say she loves you more.

Sounds more like she needs to have someone new lined up before she's willing to give up the security of having you at home. Either that or shes trying to call your bluff on this whole open relationship thing and get you to marry her before she lets someone else knock her up. Frankly the whole...

A good first step to what?

I will admit when I first read this thread I thought you were this same kitten http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=48583 and my impression was formed before I went back to check. I know this is rude, but please don't have a child with these people. If you do, find a lawyer...

I think I missed something along the way, Where is Si moving?

There isn't even any need to speculate about whether or not the gf is/was "into" the OP or whether this is a problem with triads or unicorn hunters in general. It isn't particularly useful either since most often posters just rebel against these terms. There is enough information in her own...