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I wouldn't. For the statement you made above. But if you decide to anyways.....I would hope that's an eventually for a couple years down the road. Anything could happen in the next coming weeks or months. I would just stick with nurturing your relationship for a while. Good luck.

My bad, I should've clarified. I meant threesomes are probably easier to fall into as opposed to say, a quad. Yeah, I see that. Enjoy your weekend.

@Ygirl Lmao at your signature. Maybe it's because threesomes are easier to fall into.

@ Ygirl What can I say but wow? Sounds like an awfully restrictive religion to be a part of.

Pardon me if this has already been posted before but I thought I'd share anyways for those who yet to come across it. Seems like there's a lot of hatred toward the Polyamory lifestyle as exhibited by this article. I come across this sort of stuff every now and then and I find it humorous...

I'ma have to go with yes. There has to be different levels of jealousy. Of course, I'm speaking from a couple's standpoint. The whole process of 'opening up' my monogamous marriage was flooded with jealousy. From long-term monogamy to polyamory is a drastic change in mindset and I can't imagine...

@Tseras Don't be so down on yourself. I've experienced the same thing as you. Numerous times. Hell, I even blogged about my performance issues. Of course, I made light of it...cause hey, no need to be depressed over it. So, I joked about my conditions and lo and behold...my relationship with...

Just stopping through to say hello.

I never suggested she tell her husband no either. And I agree with you...you don't have to have sex in the back of your mind in order to meet with your ex. But by the same token - I could never picture myself so eager to meet up with an ex that I would shove the idea down my wife's throat. If...

No, you are not. There are obviously different degrees of comfort levels in dealing with Polyamory. If it bothers you for your husband to get romantically involved with one of his ex-girlfriends...then I don't see why he can't, as an honorable person, be willing to accommodate and not go there...

Definitely sounds like a great night. I've been to a comedy club with my whole quad, but we weren't approached like you. Good times, congrats!

Sounds like an accident waiting to happen. I mean, I don't know what kind of Polyamorous relationship you two currently have, or how open you guys are.....but let's say you two are completely open. Why even let an old fling piqué your interest? It's an ass backward approach if you ask me, and I...

You guys have been very helpful though. I think I'ma like it a lot on this forum. Great people so far.

I'm a team player...so I don't mind waiting. Just so long as everyone else is willing to compromise as well. Which, so far...everyone seems to have been doing. I guess we're learning and growing as a group.

No, your eyes weren't deceiving you. I edited out. See, even when faced with troubling & stressful situations, I'm a trash-talker. But I wasn't too sure how well that would go over on this forum, as I'm still a newbie here.

That's probably the reason for most of the problems we've had to deal with.....moving too fast. But it's kind of hard to gauge who's having the most difficulty at the moment if they don't speak up. Another problem...communication. Lol, headache after headache...seems never-ending sometimes...

I guess I'm just speaking in an overall broad sense. At first everyone's allowed to openly address each other with whatever pet name you felt comfortable with...then later, nope. The word becomes like nails on a chalkboard to their significant other. The name even gets changed on their cell...

I never thought of it before but I'd agree. It would seem more likely that's how most Poly relationships begin...as actively pursuing one would probably difficult. Imagine the conversations with new acquaintances or long-time friends, "So....have you ever heard of Polyamory?" I'm sure that...

Criteria? It does sound lighter and I suppose expected in any kind of committed relationship. My main gripe is when a rule/criteria seems have to faded with time only to come back and cause more imposition. Sort of like a dog who thought he was set loose and sets off running, then bamn!...the...

@venusaquarius Wow, definitely sounds like you're in a unique situation. That's for sure.