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Yes, Zylya, it will continue. And you're right, we should have talked earlier. We won't be so silly again.

No, he has never said that. Geoff knows that he has never let me down. I have asked him if he wants me to give up Ewan. It was not put to him in as "If you cant handle it, I'll force myself to drop him." I asked him in a loving way, not a threat or ultimatum, a question, one that he knew he...

I could get Geoff to post here, but I wouldn't want him to read this thread, I don't think. Anything I have said on here I have now told him, but I did not put it so bluntly as it reads on this thread. I'll ask him sometime, not just yet, though.

Me too!! Thanks everyone for your ideas and thoughts. It does really help me, in fact just typing it all out and knowing that at least one person will read it helps a lot.:)

I would be sad if I gave up Ewan. I would miss him, and although our relationship consists of mainly sex, that is not all I would miss. I dont have a great time doing things with him (apart from awesome sex), and he is not loveable like my bf, I cant pretend that we are all hugs & kisses like I...

Well, they have never expressed an interest in meeting each other. Geoff has only asked about Ewan a few times, I mean, about his life, job or what he is like. He has recently asked about the sex things, but that's not the same, I don't think. Ewan knows more about Geoff, but that is because he...

Yes, I agree with you Annabel. We can work together to make this right for everyone. We have worked together before. I remember when we first got together, I was used to Ewan, and my Geoff was so different in bed, very soft and gentle and caring, and it did not take long for me to fall in love...

Yes, thank you. It does feel like we made progress at the weekend, and that’s good. I realise that I have painted a picture of Geoff being kind and gentle and sensitive, and this is all true. However, just because he is a laid-back nice guy, does not mean that he is in any way weak. He is not...

Have you read my posts? Yes, Geoff is consenting to me being with Ewan. He knew from the start. He didn't have to start a relationship with me. You say he loves me so much he is willing to suffer and accept the situation. No he doesn't. He knows that he only has to tell me that he is no longer...

I think it will be hard, but he has admitted to me that his jealousy is there. I don't yet know how deep-rooted that jealousy is, but we are going to do everything we can to work on it. What we do know is how much we love each other, and he is at least secure in the knowledge that if things...

Thanks. It's nice to get advice from a man's perspective. He was very bashful when he admitted that the thought of me with another man turned him on. He just kind of blurted it out quickly. I would never have believed it. Again, I need to encourage him to tell me these things, and also to...

Thanks, NYCindie. I also think we have taken a big step this weekend. It feels like a lot of tension has been let loose. At the moment, I could not be happier, and we are going to enjoy that feeling for now. I was so touched that Geoff asked me to teach him stuff that turns me on. It's so...

As I said, he told me his jealousy is centred around the sex that Ewan and I have. It was very difficult to speak about this. It was upsetting to both him and me. I did my best to tell him that I enjoy them both sexually, and that they were very different. He is tender, loving, gentle and...

So, over the weekend, Geoff and I have had a few frank and honest chats about our relationship, and my relationship with Ewan. We promised that we would be honest with each other during these discussions, and we have been. It's been tough. I knew this wasn't going to be easy, and it has not...

Thank you for the links, Anne. They look interesting. I will read them. I hope they help. I guess controlling people don't think they are controlling, do they? Thing is, I really don't think I am, and neither is Geoff. I would say we are both very laid back. I do not cope with confrontation...

Yes, I know it's selfish. I don't know why it means that much to me. It does, though. I asked him to wait up for me tonight. He said that he would.

The love he has for my son is a factor, but the main thing is his love for me, and mine for him. It means the world to me that my son has a daddy now, one that loves him, and is not afraid to show him affection. I will never deny that. It means the world to Max, also. Ewan thinks that I'm with...

I do see my relationship with Geoff as a long-time thing. That's for certain. Will I become sick of Ewan? I don't know. I have been with him for two and a half years now, and I am still as sexually attracted to him as I ever was. Our sex life has not yet gotten mundane. It may someday, I...

Geoff comes first. The idea that I could be indifferent to his unhappiness is so very wrong. I like Ewan's arrogance, but not when it is directed towards Geoff. I make it clear to Ewan that Geoff comes first, although I don't really like to mention Geoff at all to Ewan. He does not like to talk...

Well, thankfully for my son, Geoff did not, does not, feel this way. They hit it off straight away. He does not think of himself as a babysitter. He does not think that Max is some kind of baggage or extra trouble. He loves Max to bits, and Max loves him. They love to hang out together. They...