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Welcome to the forum. If it's any help, txgirl and I both had luck online dating and the best luck when we found each other through online dating.

Welcome to the forum!

Welcome to the forum.

Al got you taken care of, I think. I hope you're enjoying all the information.

Welcome to the forum!

Welcome to the forum!

Fair enough, but i vehemently disagree with primary need as well. Trust and companionship are higher for me. I know plenty of sexless marriages. With just very quick googling, you can find articles like this from Psychology Today that says,

I was responding to the ridiculous premise that men are only in relationships for sex. I have no idea where you're getting the latter two conclusions.

You need to read some better books/articles.

I wouldn't agree to that either. All that will do is put more space between you.

Yikes. It's good to hear from you and I'm really glad you're getting out from that situation. Good luck.

Txgirl and I are talking long term a lot more lately. We are trying to figure out how to integrate our internal feelings, labels, and status into the wider community. I did verify with Kay that she would be comfortable with me having two wives or however we should/can label it. It's going to...

I think you need a marriage counselor. There are a lot of moving parts here. If your husband has a philosophical objection to poly, there isn't a lot you personally can do. He will have to decide which is more important to him, either his moral framework or your happiness. You can decide how...

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Welcome to the forums, Jet and Sophia.

Keep in mind that labels are really only for you to communicate to other people and help them understand what you are talking about without being able to see the full dynamic. In most conversations you would just say that "my boyfriend's wife and I are really close friends" or however it is you...

Do you play with extra roles, or is it just 1 role per person? The 2 player version is really hard if you don't draw a good role combination.

If it's only been a few months since you and your ex broke up, I can see where there's an issue. That's not very much time apart (if you're even really apart) after a 7 year relationship. I would suggest a conversation with the new boyfriend with two levels. 1) can he accept a very close...

I really want to reiterate the first part that I quoted. You two are both well o the way to healthy relationships. That kind of communication is very rare. You should both be proud of yourselves. I agree with the latter too. I know the emotion is hard and difficult, but try to live in the...

One of the best things you can do for poly is to rate only the very important items as very important. In this case, the poly related ones. Do not rate unimportant things as important. This will dramatically increase the accuracy of your matches.