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    Phase 2 - Dave Continues

    The weekend went pretty good. I got more perspective into where Susan is emotionally. She's absolutely beaten down and stressed from work. It's affecting her entire life, and not helping matters is her cat has severe digestive issues. She's having to spend the first 30 minutes she's home after a...
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    Off to visit Susan. It will be really nice, even if we are winding down. I'm still looking forward to this and going on vacation in November. I met someone that seems pretty cool on OKC. She's into a lot of stuff I'm into, including stuff that I like to do, rather just read about. Tour...
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    Phase 2 - Dave Continues

    Argh! Lost a whole post. Short version: Susan and her new bf went out. In the limited time we talked, she decided to give me a detail that at the time I was not secure enough to handle without context. I remarked. She got "furious." We talked it over the next day. She cannot deal with my...
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    Phase 2 - Dave Continues

    Well, that was a sucky night. Yesterday, I wrote this poem for Susan. Dancing beneath the stars with you Thrills my throbbing heart. My skin delights at your sweet soft touch, Breathing you; such a way to start. Tingles flow down my body, your face, your eyes, your smile. I want to drink you...
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    Phase 2 - Dave Continues

    Kay was pleased, and was kind of interested. Her only trepidation with Susan is that I'm gone for a number days. Someone local would fix that.
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    Phase 2 - Dave Continues

    Something about me is that I like to know what's going on. I like to have a frame of reference to be able to understand other people. I do it at work, home, and just in normal discussions. So one thing that has stuck out with Susan is I don't know what it's like to date. I don't know how fast...
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    Phase 2 - Dave Continues

    Susan's date went well, for the most part. The positives are they laughed and talked for hours. He has a lot of characteristics she likes. There is definite chemistry there. On the other hand, he still has a live-in girlfriend (that he's saying is over... BS ALERT... if it's over, it's over)...
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    Phase 2 - Dave Continues

    This has been an interesting week. I was struggling a bit. I'm not sure why I was down. I'm sure it was a combination of Susan dating, Stakes got into some legal trouble, some frustration with other relationships, some home stress (wife in school leaves very little free time), and work has been...
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    Phase 2 - Dave Continues

    Things just can't stay stable. Susan is starting to date someone new. I'm happy for her, but scared of what that will do to us. It was just for coffee yesterday, but he asked her out again, and they've been texting for a while. It won't change my visit at the end of the month, but our November...
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    Phase 2 - Dave Continues

    Something I didn't mention, and it came up today, I told my parents I have a girlfriend. It scared my dad. He thinks Kay will change her mind and run off with the kids. That makes me wonder how much actual time and effort he has spent getting to know my wife. It's far, far more likely she'd run...
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    Just LR

    Lots of feedback in here already, but the time and stress it's going to take you to commute to a private school can be funneled into other educational studies at home outside of school. It will be more fun and likely be more interesting to Sourpea.
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    Phase 2 - Dave Continues

    That was a fantastic weekend. That's the first time that Susan and I have had an uninterrupted stay together. Previously I'd stayed at a hotel, and she'd go home for a while to take care of house stuff, then we'd meet up later. This time I stayed with her. So we were together the whole time. It...
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    Phase 2 - Dave Continues

    I'm feeling down the last few days and I'm not sure why. Part of it was that I came down with a sinus infection 10 days ago and it's still hanging around. I've been improving for 7 of them so didn't go get antibiotics. It's almost run its course, but that could be putting me in a bad mood...
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    Phase 2 - Dave Continues

    We are mostly recovered from the psychopath incident. We got some professional confirmation as well, though it was a diagnosis without interview. Susan's bf passed away about 6 weeks ago. I didn't go out to her then, but I'm headed to see her for a couple weekends both next week and next month...
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    GF came to me with concerns about new man

    Update: After some other things came out during the week, along with feedback we've gotten here, and from some other friends, he has the characteristics of a psychopath. He love-bombed her right as her previous bf was at the end of his cancer battle, and really pushed harder once he was gone...
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    GF came to me with concerns about new man

    They have not yet met in person. He could locate her very easily. After talking this through, Susan realizes she is a bottom, not a sub. I do not know how far she would go. Her desires in that regard are more extreme than mine, and she doesn't really like to talk about it. It's new for her. I...
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    GF came to me with concerns about new man

    Susan really appreciates all the feedback she has gotten. Thank you again.
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    GF came to me with concerns about new man

    Thank you both. We are seeing very similar responses from all the sources we have looked at. She is going to proceed very cautiously, and is hesitant to meet him at all, at this point.
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    GF came to me with concerns about new man

    My girlfriend, Susan, has been involved in a 3-year online friendship with Eduardo. Recently, he'd confessed he was interested in her more romantically, and they had begun exploring their feelings and embarking on some sex chats. He is very dominant, and she has enjoyed it so far. She is...
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    Phase 2 - Dave Continues

    So, one of Susan's troubles is that her local bf of the last decade is dying of cancer. At this point, he only has a few days left. I have offered on two occasions to come spend a few days with her to help her through losing him; not for us to be together, but so that she has transportation if...
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