Search results

When a man cheats, its his fault. When his woman cheats, its still his fault.

I guess the female friend has decided she doesn't want anything to do with me. Fuck my life. Goodbye.

Well, its been a while since I last posted. First off, the polyamorous relationship between Lissy, Miranda, and I never came to be. Out of no where Miranda stopped talking to us. Just as well, I was already thinking that Lissy wasn't mature enough to handle a polyamorous relationship. Also...

She is not on any medications. She has told the guy she has been talking to not to say bad things about me. He stops for a little bit, but then starts again. The only thing she can really threaten is to stop talking to him temporarily, but she has a hard time holding herself to that. This...

I had got home from work after a long day. I go to give my wife and hug and a kiss and she seems distant and aloof. I ask her what the matter is, and she doesn't really give me an answer. But I know something is wrong. I forget what I did, but it was something small that set her off and she...

Sorry for my ramblings. She has since remedied these behaviors, for the most part. I was thinking back to things she was doing. She changed when she realized how close she was to losing me. I think the reason she acted that way is because of her insecurity. Because of her insecurity she...

We haven't seeked counseling. We have talked to her friend who is in school to be a marriage counselor, but she is too close to the situation and likely too biased to really count. I think why this is still bothering me is that there is a part of me that doesn't understand why she did it...

The relationship didn't end, I am still with her.

Forgot to mention in my original post, she has since taken responsibility for what she has done. I was just wondering if the hurt ever goes away completely.

I know this isn't an exclusively poly issue, but it does have to do with trust, which is very important in a poly relationship. As mentioned in previous posts, my wife has cheated on me in the past. One night, a few months after we got married, she told me she didn't love me anymore, and...

She's not addicted to video games. She has ADD, and needs something that is quick and easy to keep her stimulated, and video games fit that bill. Just when she starts playing its hard to get her to stop. I know she doesn't want to waste the time she has with real people, but I understand how...

The problem wasn't that she was playing video games, but that she won't have time for anyone or anything else when she does. She's much better at that than she once was, but still a problem on occasion. The bigger problem is her blowups.

As mentioned before, the relationship between me and my wife, Lissy, and our friend, Miranda, seems to be going poly. The more we all talk to each other, the more and more I realize how much alike Lissy and Miranda are. But when talking in private to each, they share how scared they are of...

Hi!

I am a guitar player, mostly acoustic, but also have an electric. I like classic rock, some country, medieval music, renaissance music, classical music, and generally anything that will sound good on an acoustic. I am mainly a fingerstyle player. My wife sings (and very well might I add), and...

You are right, OneSoul. She learned this behavior in her childhood. Whenever she had a problem her parents tended not to listen. To get help or attention she had to make it their problem, and make it big enough for them to do something about it. It was the only method that worked in that...

Its the first time she has been that bad in a long time. She rarely approaches that bad anymore. It used to be I'd just take it, but after her cheating I won't put up with anything too big or too stupid. Before that we had talked about it a lot. She is learning, just slowly.

This was the first time she's been in physical pain due to stress. It was the first time this particular set of circumstance has happened. Fear of her friend rejecting her, around a very annoying 12 year old, around a 58 year old that won't stop hitting on her, worry about her friend, hungry...

We've been together for 4 years, married 1.

Though I've never been in that situation, I know what it feels like to have your heart open to someone and then they leave. I really don't have any advice to give, but I do hope that everything turns out best for everyone involved.