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heyla and welcome! I lurked for a bit too before I spoke up, theres a wonderful diverse group of folks here, with lots of advice and just just words of encouragement should you need/want them. looking forward to hearing more fromy ou, lots of luck to you and yours :)

heyla and welcome :)

heyla and welcome

heyla and welcome baby steps! let him take things as slow as he needs to, and keep talking while he's taking those tiny steps. lots of luck to you both :)

heyla and welcome

Heyla and very warm welcomes :) as to your questions? well, at least for me, compersion didn't just happen overnight, it was difficult to "find", but what opened my eyes to it, was watching my closest friends and their spouses, whom are also poly, which has made mine and my hubby's intro to the...

People change. As you yourself have come to realize, you want something else, perhaps your husband does too, Keep talking, keep taking bigger steps. You won't know for sure what he has to say until you let him respond to what you've said. Maybe he will surprise you, You never know. But even if...

Being nuturing in gneral, and being submissive in a sexual play style are two very different things. I hope he realizes this soon or he may be very disappointed. It really sounds like you simply need to ask him to please slow things down a bit and let you get used to all of this and move...

okay, okay, this is beginning to come together a little for me now, I think you left out a few important parts for us here to help or offer advice if you two have a bdsm relationship, than yes I can see where that makes things much more complicated. especially if she is not into that or doesn't...

can I interject a bit in here too please? what I'm mainly concerned over in this is it sounds to me like your fella is interested in you and this other gal hitting it off come hell or high water, and there is so many issues with that. Firstly, its YOU whom decides who you choose to have a...

heyla and welcome :)

Raleigh Guy and cjj, you both sound you like you have total heels for spouses, at least going by what's been said about them on here. Neither of your spouses/SOs (significant others) are being totally open and completely honest. That is not poly, but most importantly, they are hurting you. I...

Dang, that's harsh. Hmm, let me ask you this: does she seem genuinely sorry for having hurt you over this? Is she obviously trying to help reassure you? If you're truly trying to be open to polyamory, talk to her about wanting to email him. My thoughts would be, if you tell her you want this...

Do you fellas mind if one of the ladies speak up for a bit here? Raleigh Guy, I first want to say kudos to you for trying. More than anything else, that you are simply trying is awesome. To the specifics: what is bothering you most about your current situation? Have you told your wife it...

Why am I poly? Or, more to the point, why does poly work for me? Well, for me, that's easy. I've spent far too much of my life thinking and trying to decide what I want, why I want it, how I want it, why I don't want something else, and so on. Simply put, I've found my answers. I AM bisexual...

"I really didn't know that it really was ok, I mean, really, in all effect, she was pimping out her husband for stud services." ----- If thats truly what she thought, thats a very very huge misunderstanding of where to start poly in my opinion "And when I told her, she hugged me, and told me...

heyla and welcome first off *hugs* to you hun, and I sincerely hope you find something that makes you very happy soon and with no hurt

Oh, I'm sorry, you two. *hugs* I never had the cojones to tell the lady I speak of how I felt. She may or may not know. I have no idea. She's never spoke of it, so I'm hoping she doesn't know. It could easily be she's hoping I never say anything so, she doesn't have to let me down easy or...

heyla and welcome :)

hmmm, hoping as its a new site, thats somehting that will get changed?!?! just kinda glazed over the TOU as usual since most of them are the same standard blah blah blah, glad I didnt put up any pics yet, grrr, got soooooo excited over the uber poly kindness. will keep peeking and see if it...