RaleighGuy
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I found out some time ago that my wife had renewed a relationship with a man from her past, more than twenty years in her past, via the internet and email. Since then, they have begun to talk on the phone occasionally too. When they knew each other before, they slept together, but he lives too far away for that to happen now, except maybe on rare occasions.
She talks to me about what they say. She admits that she loves him. He knows that I'm aware of their relationship, but I don't know if he is aware that I support my wife in doing whatever she is comfortable with to strengthen her relationship with him.
I haven't talked to him, nor have I ever met him, since he was long gone when she and I got married. She's still a little nervous about my involvement, but gradually getting used to it.
This has only been going on since earlier this year. As I see it, she's polyamorous. I'm just trying to enjoy her experience. She's not comfortable with that label.
Comments, questions, advice?
She talks to me about what they say. She admits that she loves him. He knows that I'm aware of their relationship, but I don't know if he is aware that I support my wife in doing whatever she is comfortable with to strengthen her relationship with him.
I haven't talked to him, nor have I ever met him, since he was long gone when she and I got married. She's still a little nervous about my involvement, but gradually getting used to it.
This has only been going on since earlier this year. As I see it, she's polyamorous. I'm just trying to enjoy her experience. She's not comfortable with that label.
Comments, questions, advice?