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It has been over a year since I last posted or even been on the site. Here is the update. We have not gotten a divorce yet, but I did move out again in December. Brynn continues to see him and me. They started a sexual relationship about a month after I moved out. She has also started to...

Well, it is official. We will be getting a divorce. She cannot be with just one of us. It is all or nothing for her, and since I cannot get my head and heart around this, she has decided to call our marriage quits. It is hard and hurts very much knowing I cannot make this better for her. Also...

Latest update. I have been home for more than two months and things just keep getting more uncomfortable by the day. It seems they are now making plans with each other without her even talking to me about them. Brynn says she does not want to say anything to me until she knows the plans are...

dinged, I guess nothing had happened with people making decisions and I was only gone for a month. I guess nothing happens in such a short time. Carma, I am sorry for where your marriage is going, but I hope you find peace soon, as well. We will be going to counselling in the near future...

dinged, I moved back in a week ago due to the fact that the friend I moved in with had to start charging me rent. I don't blame him, but I could not afford to pay him rent, and pay for the house Brynn lives in. She did ask me to come home, but warned me nothing had changed. As for the...

Well, here we are at Christmas. The talk of couples counseling has come up. I agreed almost instantly. We started to talk again about the situation. We had not talked about it for almost a month now, but since Xmas is coming, Brynn felt the need to tell me that Brody would be there Xmas morning...

Carma, I will try to get some sleep. Thank you for being concerned.

dinged, the sleep is still hard to come by, only getting about 2 to 3 hours a night. As for the visits, we both agree on them. I know it may sound a little silly, but we both still want to be with each other. Me not being home is hard for her, and she wants to be able to see me. Might not be...

Another long week in the life of Bangel. Brymm and I got together this weekend and had a pretty good time. Sunday was a little emotional for both of us. We were supposed to go to my mother's to watch football, but she was too nervous and afraid she would get upset to go. We talked on the phone...

Carma, I have been reading your thread as well on your situation and feel for you. Thank you for you kind words. I hope for you that you will also find resolution and happiness. I believe the right love is out there for all of us. We just need to keep looking.

Well, I have moved out temporarily. I needed time to sort through my feelings and wants and needs. It is funny that now that I am not there I feel more alone and want her even more. My moving out has caused Brynn to have a breakdown and sent to to a counselor, and now she is on an anxiety med...

Dinged, I thought of that. But I thought I would be shot down for being close-minded.

Critter, thanks for your story, I would hate to say that if it was a woman coming into this, ( not to sound sexist or anything ) it might be easier than another man. I still think I would have some fear issues and feelings of loss but in no way would I feel so competitive or compare myself so...

Another hard day, it has come down to decision time. I cannot be what she wants or needs me to be. I have told her she needs to decide. I told her I love her and whatever decision she makes she will always be in my heart. I hope she chooses to stay with me, but I cannot make her. I know I will...

Carma and DingedHeart, the two of you have helped me the most in the troubling months and I thank you for that. Carma, your story touches hit close to home for me. Thank you for sharing it with me. Dinged, you seem to closely match how I feel, I started to read your thread on the Restless...

Every day is getting harder and harder for me, I now realize I am probably the most disliked person in my house. Think of taking some time away and seeing where the cards fall. I know she loves me, and I love her, but have such difficulty thinking of her with someone else. If she would be at...

Thank you for the insight. I know I have made a impact on her life because on many occasions she has told me, "If I wanted to leave, I would." I know she loves me. I hope she would not leave me for the man upstairs. (I like that. :D ) As for coming up with more hobbies, it is hard for me to...

There are no kids. But what I do worry about and I find that most of my day is now filled with, is that Brody lives right upstairs from us, so me leaving just feels like I am giving them what they would want, which is unlimited time alone. I feel I would just be forgotten about. I know I need...

Not as new, but still scared It has been awhile since my last post. The world around me is falling down. Brynn has decided that she cannot handle trying to make everyone happy and be supportive of everyone else. She has been in a terrible mood these last couple of days, always angry not really...

Well here is the latest. Brynn went away on vacation last week, and has come back with, she will not pursue this, because she feels it is ripping our "FAMILY" apart. This includes Brody. I thought I would feel happy about this decision, but I am not as happy as I thought I would be. I am not...