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I'm sure if you put out a call for new volunteers there'd be people willing to step up. I would.

To stop it the site admin might need to institute tougher sign up requirements. Not sure about what that would entail, but the moderators have done a great job in the past of deleting spam posts quickly.

Nice!

There are few people of any persuasion who have nothing to regret about how this or that aspect of their life turned out. But perhaps many of those people you know have learned about their limitations that they previously didn't see, and appreciate what they have more than they would have before...

With just a little more tweaking I think you'd have an interesting molecular diagram of….something. It could be called the Poly Molecule. Or the Polycule even. :)

I don't think being curious requires an agenda, as I said I was in my original post. I didn't say whether I thought either FMF or MFM were the most common, hence the speculation in the first place.

Thank you Mya! Now I know of at least one! :)

I sincerely hope that research occurs sometime, the statistics freak in me does at least. That's a good question on prevalence between MFM and FMF. I think it could go either way, but at least online I think FMF gets more noise. I have a theory about why, but it's probably better discussed in...

I've been in the poly online world for quite a long time now, and have read/seen/heard/experienced a great deal. But one curiosity that I just thought of is that I've never encountered IRL (or online) an M-M-W V relationship. It seems to be the rarest of all types, from what I can tell. So I was...

Glad to have made you laugh. It gets serious in here (rightfully so, it's your blog, after all), but if a person can't occasionally laugh at their own misery, well, that's just a wasted opportunity to smile. Nice to read about you doing something enjoyable. What kind of jobs are you looking to...

Based on the way LR described her history, it doesn't sound like she NEEDS any encouragement from Maca to get going. She's already nutter butter as it is. You need a few crazy people on your side, LR, to balance the ones going against you. I believe you can rent them at Costco these days. Might...

Out of curiosity, how is Panther doing? Have you had a chance to spend any quality time with him since you returned from your trip? Is it too much for him to want to be involved? Just curious, and really wondering how I'd fare in such a situation, were I either Panther or you. I really don't...

Talking to negotiate changes in behavior *IS* extremely overrated. Too many people cling to the idea that verbal communication is some kind of cure-all for relationship ills. This is aside from conversations like 'call me when you're not coming home' and the like, where a partner simply doesn't...

Nobody knows Maca better than you do, and vice versa, I'm guessing. What would be most painful to me is to share so much life with someone just to have them knowingly destroy the bonds that you'd spent so much time building together. By itself that's devastating. If that's what he's consciously...

Interesting food for thought on your recent writing. I think this is a very bold statement. As we know, codependency is considered a dysfunction, and ownership can imply a great many potential negatives. In my observations there are numerous traditional monogamous relationships which exhibit...

I am a strong believer in MB typing. I'm an INFJ, for what it's worth, so perhaps I gravitate to your writing a bit for that reason? My type is the rarest of the rare, I believe. So I understand your clan's feelings of 'nobody gets me'. Of course where my personality is concerned, I'm more...

I've always liked your writing, LR. There's never been too much ego in it, and you've painted people around you about as objectively (it seems) as a person can while being in a swirl of their own emotions. That's rare on the internet, so I've appreciated you that much more. Nothing is ever over...

I completely understand your policy. I'm quite similar and for the same reasons. Although I will say there's a distinction between revealing weakness repetitively as if it's some sort of talisman to be bandied about - versus discussing it as a cause and effect after the trouble has passed. The...

Hello my friend. Are things getting any better? Just happened to browse your blog, as I usually do when I tire of reading the stories of self-induced angst so many others post in here. And here I find you having a crisis of the psyche. :( For a man so willing to give of himself to help others...

Inyourendo, I read through some of the recent pages on this blog, and had a question for you: Are you in any treatment or therapy for some of the issues you've had regarding your mood cycles or manic times? The other poster, your boyfriend, alluded to some behavior you'd demonstrated that was a...