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    Polydiselitus

    I highly recommend getting out with girlfriend for some bonding time one on one without the husband
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    Tales from the Time Share Wife

    On a fun note, Nate's dad, sister and 4 nieces are in town. My daughters are 6.5 and almost 4, and hers are 5, 3, 3, and newborn. We've been going on a lot of fun outings. The girls all get along really well. We spent Sunday at the amusement park. I wore the baby in a mei tai carrier and...
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    Tales from the Time Share Wife

    The whole fighting endorphin thing totally seems to be true. I never thought about that. As far as my kids being exposed, he and I haven't had fights around the kids. All this stuff has been over text messages. Basically, he gets mad about something, then refuses to talk to me over the phone or...
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    Tales from the Time Share Wife

    I wouldn't be going to his house, considering his mother is back in town, and quite honestly his new roommate makes me uncomfortable. There is really no reason for his mom to move out, since I can't take my kids there with me, regardless. His roommate works from home doing inbound calls and he...
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    Tales from the Time Share Wife

    No contact doesn't work for me, I do like the friendship aspect of our relationship and I think that's been why it's so hard to just cut him out. I'm not going to be with him, but I think keeping touch, at least for the time being, is what I need to do to wean off.
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    Tales from the Time Share Wife

    He talked to me today and made excuses. "The death of an animal upsets me," "I was not happy with the circumstances," "I'm under a lot of stress." Not a single apology. I wasn't expecting he would apologize. He's never sorry.
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    Why is he not making time for me?

    Sounds like he's just not into you, he doesn't want to cut you loose because he wants access to you when it's convenient to him.
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    What is reasonable?

    Just be upfront. I don't think it's unreasonable to ask that the focus be on you when you are dealing with healthcare issues. I also don't think asking him to use barriers to protect you and your baby from catching something unreasonable either. If he doesn't want to you and him can either use...
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    Tales from the Time Share Wife

    Ugh. I got treated like shit yesterday and decided I had enough. I blocked him and decided I have to stay strong with the whole no contact thing!
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    Okcupid: Does it work?

    Have you ever considered taking a break from trying to date and focus on yourself?
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    In your own words, Poly or Fuck Buddy ?

    My husband doesn't identify as a swinger because random hookups don't appeal to him but he's also both interested in a. Romantic relationship with anyone else so he's not poly either. He enjoys having multiple fuck buddies or fwb. I don't.like having casual sex, I want a romantic relationship...
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    In your own words, Poly or Fuck Buddy ?

    Marriage, cohabitation, shared finances, children etc
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    Dazed and Confused

    I would personally back away until he breaks up with her, she's not a good metamour and I wouldn't tolerate being treated that way. She clearly does not want to share her partner with anyone else so I do not see this drama ending
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    Does anyone know of any St Louis poly groups/places?

    I.imagine you'd find.local poly groups through fetlife as well, Springfield is much Springfield is much smaller than stl and we have a pretty active group
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    In your own words, Poly or Fuck Buddy ?

    I agree with this, I have had a hookup with friends before where it was a one Time thing and the friendship was unaffected
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    In your own words, Poly or Fuck Buddy ?

    DEFINE: HOOK-UP (what does that look like?): met someone.(online, at the bar, etc?) Had sex with each other, no strings attached DEFINE: FUCK-BUDDY (what does THAT look like?): ongoing hook ups, no dating, just sex but friendly rapport (texting, etc) DEFINE: Primary Poly Relationship ...
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    Bouncing ideas...

    That's sounds lonely and rough being away from your partners while they still have each other. Hopefully the opening up happens sooner than later for you
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    Married man meeting women advice

    I highly recommend not dating someone at work. Other than that I think becoming friends before you try to approach someone for dating is definitely the best option. But the same time don't just become friends because you want to get romantically involved most women can see through that
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    Tales from the Time Share Wife

    I'm feeling pretty good. I've been doing low carb since getting back home. I started hcg diet again and been sticking to it since Friday. I was a vegetarian for almost 5 years, but unfortunately I just can't seem to lose weight or feel satiated on the vegetarian protein options on hcg. I'm happy...
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    Do you know your love language and does it matter?

    Mine is quality time and it absolutely does matter. I couldn't be happy with someone I didn't get to spend quality time with often. The times that Sam and I were having relationship problems was when he was super busy and we only got to see each other a couple hours a week and I wasn't able to...
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