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    This Again (Persistent Patterns)

    I have always been attracted to loners who are creative, geeky, and not into partying.
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    Being "in a relationship" (sex & love)

    i've had 4 relationships yet have kissed around a hundred people. kissing isn't something that is exclusively for relationships.
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    Consent: What if it's Not Required?

    I don't think that veto will exist if the partner doesn't give power to it. If my husband says "ok, we'll be open but if I say we are closing our relationship back for any reason then we will" well I can agree to it but if I don' actually agree to close when he tries to then the veto just...
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    Consent: What if it's Not Required?

    I think it's on the partner who wants to close the relationship back up to either deal with it or leave. I do not believe it would be unethical for me to not dump my boyfriend because my husband decides he doesn't want to share me.
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    How long? (Before it's okay to say "I love you?")

    I say it when i feel it. I don't care how early it is, I know pretty early on and i've said it as early as a couple weeks before (and they ended up being very long term)
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    Who's dressing up for Halloween??

    i just can't seem to get into it, if I was going to a costume party sure but none of my friends throw them. it's been several years since i've dressed up
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    Tales from the Time Share Wife

    The other thread, where it was suggested that marriages shouldn't be forever, but instead they should be a contract that could be renewed if the participants wish to remain married, got me thinking that could be a good option for Sam and me. I proposed to Sam that every year on our anniversary...
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    Sad. Metamour says no.

    I personally can't just turn off feelings for exes and I have to have several months of no contact to transition between lovers to friends otherwise I'd just keep having sex with them
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    Consent: What if it's Not Required?

    So if my husband wanted to open our marriage, I agree and get a boyfriend but husband decides poly isn't for him he can decide that hw wants to go back to monogamy and if I don't dump him or my boyfriend I'm being unethical?
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    Power is out. What do you do

    No power for 8 days during an ice storm several years ago, we went and stayed with family
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    Tales from the Time Share Wife

    Things have been really good with Nate lately. He's been extremely affectionate with me, which I love. I told him that if he had plans to host, I end up leaving later than expected, or not at all, I would be okay with him bringing his fuck buddies over while I'm home. He told me that he really...
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    Consent: What if it's Not Required?

    I will not be with a smoker. If my husband decided to start smoking the choices are don't smoke or we split, It's not a power play at all.
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    Consent: What if it's Not Required?

    Is it cheating if the wife informs her husband that she will no longer remain monogamous but he doesn't consent?
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    The Best Life Yet

    I totally get it, I felt that way after nate hadnt seen deanna in over 3 months, I thought she was out of my hair and she just popped back in grrrr
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    What a mess

    he pushed to open the relationship so he can have sex with others assuming that you would not be successful. you met someone then he wanted to put a stop to it. now he's using underhanded tactics like suicide threats as a way to get you to comply. I think his behavior warrants a split, he's...
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    Metamours being Pals?

    My husband old fwb and I became very good friends (me more so than him) I guess the only downside is that she didn't like hearing about the other chicks he fucked and as a friend it was hard not to vent to her. My partners are not friends nor do they socialize. They are polite to each other if...
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    When Your Significant Other is Having Problems with Their Significant Other

    Yep we both vent. Neither of us advise each other, we are just there for each other. We listen and support. Like recently husband's fuck buddy who he recently went barrier free with told him she might not be able to hook up anymore and it kind of upset him because he only went barrier free...
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    How to have sex in with others in Open Marriage

    Express deals shows a room here for $38, I don't think that is that bad to split the cost. Someone could even pay for the room and use it to host multiple partners
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    The Best Life Yet

    I had no ideaabout bra size, I thought the smaller my breasts got the smaller the cup size and had no idea it was really just a difference between band and bust. I was trying to wear a 38 D and turned out I was a 34F! After corset training and some weight gain I was a 32G.
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